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I am a girl and I have liked a few people in my life like most people but I can picture a guy likens me or smiling just because I talked to him. I now super pretty but I an not the worst looking I think I am kinda pretty I guess. Is it normal to think that no guy will ever like obsess over you kinda??
I think you seem to have a problem with distinguishing the difference between a guy who will obsess over you and a guy who adores you.
A guy who adores you will text you every day just to check up on you, do fun things with you, cuddle with you and tolerate watching chick flicks to be able to lay on the couch all night with you. He will believe that you are beautiful even if you look like shit, he will bring you soup and medicine if you are sick and if he can't be with you, he will be sure to let you know that he wishes he was.
A guy that will obsess over you will go onto your Facebook and write strange comments of all of the accumulated 144 pictures you have on your Facebook. He will talk shit about all of your guy friends and insist that he be the only one you spend time with. If you don't respond to his texts immediately, he will blow up your phone with messages, call you, leave you a shit ton of voicemails and come to your house in the middle of the fucking night to knock on your door and scream "WHOSE IN THERE!? WHO IS HE!?". He will start making up conspiracy theories regarding where you are and what you're doing when you're not responding to his communications and he will steal your shit and worship it.
Know the difference.
Either way, if you want a guy that adores you, you need to hang around more guys and take interest in things that they like. I know guys that will fall head over heels for a woman who loves cars or sci-fi or comic books... so take an interest in their hobbies, be yourself, be genuine, be caring, and don't obsess over them and eventually, you'll find someone.
No, it is not normal. Why would you think that? You will always look as good as you look. That's all there is to it.
Someone ought to like you. How many different faces and personalities exist in the world, and nobody will ever like you? Why?
It's not all about the looks anyway. Once you like someone for who they are and vice versa you will realise that looks are not the most important aspect in a relationship.
You can be the prettiest or the ugliest, but that won't guarantee a positive or a negative reaction from guys regrdless of how you look. Everyone wants something different.
Accept yourself for who you are, and don't worry about being just pretty.
I'm a guy and I feel the same way, especially after this girl threw me out of her life for telling her how I felt. We were really close friends too, so to be shot down so hard that she won't even talk to me makes me feel like no one will ever want me. I'm depressed...
I feel the same way. I just can't picture anyone having a crush on me. Im decent looking btw.
It's not a matter of looks. You could be extremely pretty but add that to an awful personality and chances are that most of your relationships will be one-night stands. However, if you have a nice personality then you'll find someone who'll like you. Obsession is a different story. But you'll meet someone who appreciates you, for all you know he could be one of your best friends.
It's normal to have self-confidence issues but that shouldn't stop you from approaching guys or taking chances. I wouldn't worry about guys "obsessing" over you- that may or may not happen but it's not a necessity in a relationship. You want a guy you can trust who will look out for you and care for you.
Obsession only leads to lust which leads to broken relationships. You want love, which is a different kind of obsession, more like madness.
I'm sure there is osmeone out there whi si crazy about you. It's not always about looks you know.