Is it normal to think my fiance is gay?

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I have been with my bf for 6 years now and we just got engaged and now that we are getting closer to marriage i am more cautious of his behaviors. I may be over reacting but i need someones opinion. During four play he likes me to play with his ass and he also enjoys playing with mine while beating off and this makes me uncomfortable and turned off. He also doesn't ever really go down on me he says he doesnt like the way pussy taste, now i have had many other sexual partners and they get addicted to my pussy that they love the way it tastes so why does my bf act completely opposite? Also during sex he always talks about him watching me getting fucked by another guy or me being gangbanged turns him on, what the fuck? Whenever i try to ask him if he's gay he flips out and gets mad. Please someone help me out =[

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  • Coco-pops
    11 years ago

    Nah he's not gay

    Although I think every guy should go down on a girl if they get head

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  • prasatko
    11 years ago

    I cannot see any indication of his homosexuality from the description of his behaviour. Anal play or anal sex or the idea of a girl having sex with other men or being gangbanged has nothing to do with gay orientation.

    The only thing which seems hard to understand to me is his aversion to giving you oral sex but it does not mean that he is gay, he may just have this aversion for other reasons (which I cannot understand because I suffer from the "pussy-licking-addiction", too but I would not call men with completely different preferences gay).

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  • quentari
    11 years ago

    wow... so not gay behaviour... there are 100 reasons that he may not like going down on you, do you shave? perhaps he likes it the other way. Do you have a diet with plenty of fruit? you may taste bad.

    As for the ass-grabbing, I will ask you this. Does liking oral sex from a guy make you a lesbian? If your answer was no (which it was, because you're actually upset he won't give you oral sex) then why would a guy who enjoys prostate stimulation assumed to be gay? He's only gay if he is sexually attracted to males.

    Also, sounds like he has a gangbang fetish or that fetish where you like your girlfriend to be fucked by other guys.

    He doesn't sound gay, but you sound like you're trying to find fault with him. Do you really want to be with him? ask yourself that.

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    I don't think he's gay.. but he sounds like the type who lets his fanatasies get in the way of his relationship. This obviously makes you uncomfortable. I would be to.. I don't really like the idea of my bf getting off to me getting gangbanged.. that should make him want to beat people up..

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  • MargieRooster
    11 years ago

    It's normal for a guy to not want to go down on a girl. I have never let my boyfriends go down on me because it's just grosser than a blowjob because of the various fluids involved.

    As far as that goes, keeping yourself clean with increase your odds of that happening.

    And as far as the ass thing, that's normal. Just because a guy likes/prefers anal sex from a FEMALE... that doesn't make him gay. It's tighter and the risk for pregnancy is eliminated, meaning you can have sex without a condom. (excluding STDs, assuming you and your partner have received regular exams)

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  • fozzy13
    11 years ago

    Thanks for the feedback =)

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  • screwthestandard
    11 years ago

    No, he's not gay, why would he have been with you for 6 years if he is? He's just kinky.

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  • prasatko
    11 years ago

    I cannot see any indication of his homosexuality from the description of his behaviour. Anal play or anal sex or the idea of a girl having sex with other men or being gangbanged has nothing to do with gay orientation.

    The only thing which seems hard to understand to me is his aversion to giving you oral sex but it does not mean that he is gay, he may just have this aversion for other reasons (which I cannot understand because I suffer from the "pussy-licking-addiction", too but I would not call men with completely different preferences gay).

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  • Energy
    11 years ago

    Maybe he's just bisexual. And just because he wants to see you get gang banged, does not mean he's gay. And I've met some guys that like it when their girls do something with their assholes, lol.

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