Is it normal to think my apearance is disgusting? :/

i dont really like to talk about my looks :/ but once someone says something bad about the way you look you remember it forever. like my ex said i was too thin and he didnt know why he went out with me because i was really ugly...how/what can you do to think that youre pretty? i wear make-up an do my hair nice but i always think something is wrong..

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Comments ( 15 )
  • Sotchi

    He sounds like an asshole if he said that to you which makes him the ugly one. Don't dwell on it. There are plenty of people out there who'll like u just as u r, & u should too.

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    • unwrittenn

      aw thank you :)xx

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  • emilydoll

    That's dumb. Dont see what he said he might've lied to piss you off or make himself feel superior. He's ugly fir saying that!!

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    • unwrittenn

      thank you :)x

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  • bobmcay

    don't base your opinion on what 1 person says... especially a person who probably has a bias such as an ex

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  • Baba_Ganoush

    It's VERY normal considering how fat of a hog you are, CHRIST take a shower you nasty git!

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  • Some are good looking and some arent. I could lie and tell you appearance doesnt matter but there would be no point in saying that. If you are not good at appearance then focus on the areas that can be improved like intellegence etc also wearing make up tends to only make girls look worse.

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  • 8Serene8

    It's a girl thing.

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  • Mersaphe

    Honey you aint disgusting. The only disgusting ones are the boys who called you ugly, they got ugly personalities. You can fix looks but ya can't fix what's inside

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  • Sacmom

    Its a self esteem issue. I assume when ever I get a compliment that the person has a hidden agenda. I wasnt some molested homeless kid when I was growing up, it's possible it's just personality traits were born with.

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  • pambambam

    ok try this out
    1) get a tan, hair cut , whatever ..
    something that will change your look.
    2) get a perfume, always smell good.
    3) use girly clothe.even if youre ugky this will change the first look people glance at you.
    good luck!!

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  • bichonsrock

    I have rare gentic disorder called NF, Tumors to grow, inside and outside of the body, I hate it,my face is covered with small tumors people mostly kids call me ugly all the time, I get stared at alot, I wasnt asked to be born with this, it just happened, I dont have many friends because of it, why cant people see whats on the inside instead of judging the outside

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    • Happy_PoopSmear

      Virgin for life, right??

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  • MrsEdGein

    I share your pain. I'm not a great looker either and have gotten hurtful comments from guys that prove it and it's gotten to the point were I'm tense and uncomfortable around men now. One guy said "Yuck" when he looked at me and it still hurts to this day.
    I hardly go out the house any more because I'm always paranoid that everyone is judging my appearance negatively and thinking bad things about me. My self-esteem and confidence are so low and I'm often negative about myself and all that has led to depression.

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  • justkarma

    Your esteem has been attacked by your ex and the media in general. Go out with someone who isn't a twat and I'm sure you'll be feeling fine in no time.

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