Is it normal to think most men are uncapable of being faithful?

Women have their moments too, you know. However, genders don't cheat - individuals do.

(I'm a girl) I agree with the 2 people above me. But just so you know I've been with my boyfriend for over 2 years and hes been absolutly faithfull to me & I was the one who cheated more than twice. So like the above comments said its not necesarily a gender problem is more of an individual/ society influence problem.

I agree with the above posters. Genders arnt the problem, it's the people. Woman cheat to, you know. The fact is, you need to find some new people. Any guy who thinks it's "harmless fun" to go run with hookers or random girls on the web when they have a girlfriend are not people to be with, obviously. You need new friends.

sounds to me that you are hanging out with the wrong crowd. none of the guys i know are like that.

Online accessibility complicated the possibility of meeting a good One.

You are picking the wrong guys. For some reason you are attracted to the type of guy who is likely to cheat. Not all men are like this, but maybe you wouldn't be attracted to the faithful ones?

The problem is you women think that you got us guys married and now the fun is over. Many of you are lazy lovers and a wham bang tankful mamm is not what we need to stay faithfull. Good sex, exciting sex, erotic loving sex, experimental sex, toys massage new techniques sex changes and boundaries change I'm not talking sharing your wife but being open to new things like for me to try anal, or enjoy a full blow job and watch her swallow my cum, Just two of the most basic wants for a man.

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Men are visual creatures. Thats what we're told. I've never actually been cheated on, but I see where you're coming from. My husband and I have been together for 7 years and married for one. I have confidence in my appearance but sometimes I do wonder if my husband's mind wonders farther than his handsss. I'm in my 20's and now I'm looking at teenagers and thinking they're much spunkier and cuter than I am. All it takes is attention from a beautiful girl/woman for most menn.

no gender can be the problem, men are hardwired to want to spread their seeds as much as they can. Because back then the chances of having a child survive were slim. So nature hardwired men in a way to become natural cheaters. If you don't completely buy into that look at other animal males most of which are not into monogamy. To put it simply you could say monogamy is against nature. And even though I'm using men as the example women are just as guilty of this. They want to have offspring with a higher percentage of survival but they also tend to want a father. So this is why women will cheat on the husband who is fatherly with the pool boy. because in the old days they wanted the best genes but a good man to raise their babies. In the end monogamy may just be doomed to fail but that being said it's not like its totally out of the picture some couples have loved and lived together happily with each other their whole life without even batting an eye at others.

Statistically as men and women go, one is just as likely to cheat as the other.

The comment that he has female friends he would sleep with if you weren't together is a huge red flag. Sorry but it is.

Truth be told it sounds like you keep picking the same guy over and over hoping for a different behavior and that just aint gonna happen. Perhaps your selection process needs to be examined.

It is very hard to trust after you've been cheated on, that's for sure. I pray that you will find a man that truly wants to be with one woman and one woman only. It is the way to the deepest intamacy.

Maybe you personally have had experiences with guys like that, but i think it's a huge assumption which is not accurate

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It is possible to find a faithful partner. Sometimes you have to get through some bad ones to find a good one. It is not really a gender issue anymore; I find that infidelity really knows no gender lines.