Is it normal to think most gothic girls are bisexual?
I have dated a few and they were all bisexual. Their gothic friends were also bisexual. Maybe it was just the crowd I was with, I don't know.
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I have dated a few and they were all bisexual. Their gothic friends were also bisexual. Maybe it was just the crowd I was with, I don't know.
I think people in certain subcultures are probably more likely to come out for various reasons. Goths are probably less likely to practice religions that prohibit bisexuality, for example. It's also more accepted in some subcultures than others, which makes it way easier to come out.
Some of it is probably the group you hang out with too, though. I know a lot of polyamorous sceptics/rationalists/atheists. I don't think it's that scepticism, rationalism, and atheism make people more likely to be poly, it's just that where I live, it's easier to talk about in that subculture.
A lot of the goth girls I've known have been bisexual. I think perhaps there's something about the scene that is a little hmm... not androgynous but... less concerned with gender in the way people should look, so perhaps it appeals most to bisexual people and perhaps bisexual people would find it a more tolerant scene. Only a theory, though.
Not all of them but they might not have the same idea about it as some more religious groups. So they would be going against it already.
I don't know if it is a rule or not, but oddly this has been my experience too.
Same here. I was removed from my ninth year of school to be home-schooled and I was friends with a lot of the gothic crowd. They all wanted me to keep in contact after I left so we all exchanged phone numbers.
Within a six month time frame all of my female gothic friends called me, we talked for a while, and "oh by the way I'm bisexual". And I'm like, "that's nice, but why tell me?"
Also within the same time frame, a male nerd friend of mine called to tell me he was gay. All the while I'm thinking... "I'm sorry to seem to brash but why should I care?" I mean, I was not interested in any of them anyway, so why tell me that sort of stuff?
Oh well. I don't have to deal with it anymore. :P