Is it normal to think monogamy is unnatural & shouldnt be the default?

We naturally love more than one person at a time. Monogamy is a social and religious construct. Jealousy is seen as a sign of love, but any psychologist will tell you it's merely insecurities. Yes humans can be selfish, but that doesn't mean it's healthy. Monogamy CREATES many issues and separation. Issue is, too many people refuse to leave thier comfort zones and face the music. Honesty and communication are essential for a good relationship. There's a reason why polyamorous relationships are great at these things, and monogamous relationships struggle with them. Monogamy is not natural to us, its just what we're taught to thrive for. Statistics don't lie, at least half the time, monogamy does not work. And that's just what is reported. The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over, expecting different results.