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First of all, I'm a man.
It appears to me that overall in general men love women, more than women love men, they desire them more and do more for them.
I also wish is was the opposite and women would do more for men than men do for women... but I'm just a dreamer =(.
I have seen it go both ways.
The only reason why it would stick out so much when it's the man is because it's such a given that the woman should usually be the loyal one. In recent years, it's become the in-thing to generalize every woman as that little blonde bitch from mean girls and use examples of relationships that fit the argument to justify their opinions.
Don't act like men and women don't have a long history of making sacrifices for the other just because you don't view what women will do for men as sacrifices. I've seen women give up their careers to be stay at home Moms at his request, I've seen women work at strip clubs, work two jobs or enlist in the military because their husbands became disabled or lost their jobs and they wanted desperately to provide for their families as opposed to kicking him out the front door when his usefulness was compromised. I've seen women put their very lives and personal safety on the line for their husbands and I have seen women drive themselves into physical, emotional and financial ruin to help their husbands battle cancer, mental illness or joblessness. On the flip side, I've seen women leave their sick husbands on their death beds for some better dick and I've seen men willingly sell their wives for sex so they wouldn't have to work and I've seen men sacrifice their lives on war to provide their wives with medical care in the face of disability and illness.
You're not going to see this shit on TV or in Facebook memes. You see people making sacrifices for each other by stepping outside of your pathetic, ego-centric reality and taking a look around you. Beyond your friends, beyond your family, beyond every little shit school you've been to. There's a bigger world out there and in the grand scheme of things, gender and willingness to make sacrifices are irrelevant.
Oh, uh, wow, I'm actually not pissed, guys. I just got a stick up my ass cuz some clown I trained a couple of weeks ago told me that he couldn't believe I'm a mechanic because he didn't know girls could be mechanics and then told my co-worker that I'm too pretty to be a mechanic so now I'm on a gender kick. Your patience is appreciated :P
i knew i should not have written my gender for this to be more objective, for biased people like urself, who cant look at things objectively. also, ur attitude is disgusting.
also, realize this: i said men love women more IN GENERAL meaning most of the times its men who love women more, but of course theres a minority of women who love men more.
u described things a minority of women would do for thier men, that the majority of men do for thier women.
look at the big picture, and dont give specific examples.
If that's your mentality then I don't regret my "disgusting" comment. Your knowledge of human history in general is matched only by your proficiency in the English language.
clearly u dont regret anything that may diminish ur ego, and ur that typical self-rightous person.
english isnt my native language, so what? i write lazy but as long as u are smarter than a bird, u should understand it perfectly.
my knowledge of human history? what does my comment has to do with history? u make me laugh. gj.
u clearly have nothing meaningful to say about my comment... its sad that i'm even wasting my time to write this back to u.
all the thumbed up for ur comment and the down for my comment came from biased people (probally mostly women) who cant accept different opinion expect the biased bullshit that makes them feel good about themselves, and they think they give more than they get, when in reality its the exact opposite. very sad.
Your comment has quite a bit to do with history. Look around you. Look in a frickin' textbook. Human history is, quite literally, littered with women making sacrifices for the good of their situations and for the good of their men. Evolutionary history itself is a testament to that: without women, society would have fallen apart.
Think about it. Think about the fact that, when the men were sent to wars, society didn't crumble. Children were still being raised, homes were still being maintained and function and order was still widespread. Women made that happen and for quite a few of them, it was out of dedication to their men.
The fact that you seriously believe that there is a disproportionate ratio of sacrifices made by men for women and sacrifices made by women for men is only a testament to the fact that you can't see past your own stupidity and selfishness. Maybe that's why you can't find a woman who would go to the end of the street for you, let alone, the ends of the Earth.
1. its pathetic how u try turn things on me instead of the issue everytime "Maybe that's why you can't find a woman who would go to the end of the street for you, let alone, the ends of the Earth."
u know nothing about me, so much ego, and what a judgemental bitch u must be.. good lord i feel bad for those poor guys trying to put up with u. just go back to fixing cars.
now i know its a mistake playing into ur retarded move, but just to make u stfu: i have a lovely woman (unlike urself).
2. clearly u dont understand that this entire post is about how things are today, as for now. should i repeat myself? nowdays. look at the past few years.
and for the record, its clear u see 'men fight wars' as if they go playing basketball while the 'poor women' have to take care of the kids. i wish u to fight a war once, then tell me if its easier than taking care of the kids at home. again, u make me laugh.
now please stfu about history. this isn't what my thread is about.
3. now look at relationships between men & women today, not about sacrifices made throughout history in regards to national conflicts (lol).
First world problems.
No, seriously, I think the inequality that men suffer in the first world is a genuine problem.
i think women do more for Men but that is how it is superposed to be anyways and i know i love my Husband just as much as He loves me if not more...
There are lots of standards for men and women changing nowadays, so I'm saying that sounds normal. I'm a girl myself and I actually agree with you. It should be equal between men and women in a relationship.
Ik I'm in a relationship like this now. It's not right or normal but it happen all the time.
Nobody wants to settle. Everybody has high expectations. The demand for attractive women is much greater than the supply.
I know what u mean. Like... the guy usually has to Initiate sex, also us expected to pay for dinner and most everything. Buy flowers and jewelry. But I've also had clingy girlfriends that dont expect jack shit, shock is pretty much the exact opposite, and it kind of takes someof the fun out of it. Everyone is different... maybe YOU just feel like YOU love your girl friend/wife/fwb more than they do you.
I've seen the opposite from my experiences. It's just what you've seen/heard/experienced, so don't think it's that way for most peeps, though I can understand you thinking that. It's really both.
Hmm... I don't know. It can go both ways.
But more often than not, I see and hear people - men and women - express undying love for someone when really they just desire them for looks, money, status, etc,.
I think true love is very hard to find, and it should not be confused with strong desires or obsessions.