Is it normal to think kinky sex with girlfriend is inappropriate?

I have been dating my girl friend for about 5 years now. I lost my virginity to her and she lost hers with me. I am 22 years old and do not like having kinky sex or doing anything wild with her because I love her and do not want to look at her as a sliz. Now I always fantasize about other women doing kinky things because I don't really care about them. PS I wouldn't cheat on my GF to do kinky stuff. Old school sex is good enough haha IIN?

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  • sparrowfeed

    tell her she's a bad girl and do something rough to her.. tell her you'll fuck her until she screams for you to stop.. don't let her get away. Oh man. please, do this for your GF. fuck wholesome sex.
    now i got all hot and bothered.

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  • 343Boy

    Have her pretend to be another girl so you can do "kinky" stuff with her.

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  • littlemunkee

    shes not a sliz if she dose kinky stuff. shes a sliz if she dose kinky stuff with tuns of different guys

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  • aussiewolf

    well it depends on what you mean by "kinky" sex because kinky to some people means using a feather and kinky to other people means using the whole chicken.
    there is nothing wrong with experimenting with your partner when it comes to sex as long as you are both willing. just because a chick might like taking it up the pooper, that doesnt make her a "sliz", it just means that she likes different things.
    you need to realise that pornography is all about fantasy because it sounds to me that you are getting your ideas from the fact that most chicks in porno's are quite experimental but that is their job.

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  • sparrowfeed

    awww.. that's kind of sweet, actually :)

    but you're getting it all wrong. it's not sleazy at all! your GF may be bored of the missionary position.

    i say try doggy style. she's going to love it.. doggy style is amazing.

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  • sparrowfeed

    lmao.

    i say do something dirty. wholesome sex is creepy.

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    • shade_ilmaendu

      Wholesome sex is also sooo contradictory. It's the most animalistic thing we as humans still do. What's so wholesome about that?

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  • 423

    BDSM!!! It's the only way. plus it's fun. it's how i lost my virginity with my gf. and she screams like crazy. BONDAGE!!! DO IT!!!

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  • Stevekerwal

    My wife was a virgin when we met and it took some time before I could do her doggy style.......she never looked back and now some times comes home and just wants me to lift up her skirt and her from behind!!

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  • deepthought33

    Maybe your problem lies more in thinking anything more than the missionary position is in fact kinky. That label seems make all that other stuff seem wrong and dirty.
    But if you really are happy with what you have then there is no reason to force yourself into thoughts and actions you're not comfortable with. Hopefully she feels the same because a sexual relationship really does thrive on reciprocation...well, all parts of a relationship really.
    Also, I think it is very normal to let your fantasies run like that. When it comes to sex our mind is a blank slate and for many people ANYTHING goes lol.

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  • anonymousblahblah

    As a sliz?? I'm not sure what that means.. but I'm gonna take a wild stab and say that it's not very good. Why would you think of her as this!? There is nothing wrong with kinky sex, you guys should be 100% comfortable around each other so I'm sure that this would be fine. Talk to her.

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    • Failedcasanova

      Sleez

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  • Echoes

    Has it ever occurred to you that she might be thinking about the same kinky stuff??? Talk to her and see what comes out.

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  • CreamPuffs

    Hey, kinky sex with your girlfriend/boyfriend is the MOST appropriate way to do it! Of course, it also depends on what you think is kinky.

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  • karmasAbich

    I dated a girl who told me to tell her she's a bad girl when we were having sex. Then she strayed screaming 'I'm a bad girl' it was a real turn off for me. Also, very ridiculous.
    Your normal tho, I can understand your reasoning

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  • 1776

    hey! sex is 100000 times better when its with the one you love... you can be really comfortable with her and please her like she like by listening to her needs! dont be scared and do not connect hot passionate sex to slut or i dont know coz theres nothing to do with that!

    also, you can make love than hot sex from time to time! ;) its all allright!

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  • HSVWHO

    Unless u speak to her about it and let her know what ur thoughts and reasons are, she won't know. Not not that she might be curious too. She has needs as well. Think about it.. She hasn't slept with anyone else but u... She wonders that there is more to it then the "traditional way" spice it up before she cheats... Or worse.. wonders off to satisfy her curiosity. It has happened before.
    You respect her and that's why u think it's "wrong" to do anything that extreme with her. But it's not disrespect if she enjoys it too. Better u then some other guy don't u think?

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  • oneonone

    So what are you wanting from us if Ur happy fine. She will dump you soon enough when she want exciting sex chance is she won't even tell you cus your to fucking boring.

    Ur loss

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  • BoredGuy

    ^you took you some time to do her doggy style? you got a long way to go young Jedi.

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  • sparrowfeed

    normal sex sucks.

    i can't even get off if i'm just lying on a stupid bed in the missionary position.

    recently, we've started fucking in abandoned alley stairways.
    this seems to do the trick.

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  • izz321

    I'm with sparrowfeed. "Only" wholesome sex is creepy.

    But then, I suppose "only" wholesome sex is sorta kinky in its own way. Kinky sex is usually viewed as something that is out of the norm, and "only" wholesome sex is definitely not normal.

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  • xxjenxx

    that'S your bussiness, but i think that if you wanna do something, do it. as long as she agrees.

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  • gako

    Aw seems liek you have a lot of respect for her. Shes lucky to have you ' Well I'm not going to give you advise to disrespect her and do stuff that she doesn't want to do ' But maybe talking it out with her first and see what she says about it might work.

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  • muffdiver1

    Me and my gf always have kinky sex,its what makes sex intresting sex!she used to be shy! And we only used to have normal sex no crazy dirty things.but one day we got terribly drunk, and 1 thing led to another next thing you know I'm shoving banana after banana in her arse and pussy! And then eating them its so fucking hot!!all you have to do do is try anything you feel like doing!if she don't like it fair enough,now when me and my gf have sex it like I'm fucking a pornstar!

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    • sparrowfeed

      omg i want a banana in my pussy... like NOW.

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  • amxmachine

    @sparrowfeed ur right and holy fuck stop turning us all on!

    to anyone not comfortable with kinky stuff im going to say some harsh shit. you have been diluded by some proper motherfuckas out there. she is no more holy than you and you wont desecrate god by exploring every erm... angle

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  • bleach_baby

    You have a madonna/whore complex and probably mother issues. You need therapy.

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