Is it normal to think i won't get a girlfriend because i'm too boring?

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So I keep having these biological urges to get a girlfriend, but I think I'm just too boring and that any girl would get bored of me really fast. My social life is a disaster, and I have no good hobbies or anything at all interesting about me. I just don't see why anyone would ever possibly find me appealing. It's gotten to the point that I would actually feel sorry for any girl that agreed to go out with me.

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  • bucho's_butt
    8 years ago

    This site is too damn depressing. I feel for you OP. And I agree with the above poster.

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  • Tealights
    8 years ago

    You're probably not boring. Believe me, everyone has something about them that makes them quirky and fun to be around.

    What you need to do is understand yourself more. Don't compare yourself to others, or you're going to find yourself striving to become someone you're not and have a terrible time. Be yourself, try hobbies you're genuinely interesting in, and build up self-esteem.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    Most people are pretty damn boring, you are in very good company.Your biggest problem seems to be self confidence.
    There has to be SOMETHING you enjoy doing and there must be others who also enjoy doing that. So all you have to do is find out where you can meet them. Once you are with others who share your interests you won't have any trouble making friends.

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  • Surprise
    8 years ago

    You never know until you try, you may see yourself boring but there maybe some girls out there that you encounter that will feel your amazing. Don't sell yourself short

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  • okmissdonald
    8 years ago

    adopt a dog from a shelter. Take your dog for walks and to a dog park. you may meet a girl at the dog park- you can enjoy the dogs and each others company. And dogs love you- even if you are boring.

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  • Rusty-Rider
    8 years ago

    Get a motorcycle and a pet monkey. The girls love guys on bikes and everyone loves monkeys. That ought to make you not quite so boring.

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  • theNonBlackguy1
    8 years ago

    Damnnn bro you not alone ,I feel the same .i can't even talk to females bc idk how to. but how they say there somebody for everyone

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  • Short4Words
    8 years ago

    Then why don't you make yourself into somebody that others want to be around, especially yourself?

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