Is it normal to think i'm hot even though many would think i'm not?

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Okay, so compared to most males out there I may be considered quite unattractive. Acne scars,skinny, big nose, small ears - when I was in school all the "hot girls" generally thought i was unattractive. However since leaving school, im not sure if its my ego or confidence but i direct my thoughts as though I am REALLY HOT. I mentally tell myself things like "Im Sexy" or "I Look two inches taller today" or "My braces make me more attainable"
I also tend to catch girls "eye-ing" me up and where i used to think "oh shit she must have seen my (fill in blank w/negative self opinion" my thoughts now are more like (literally) "She's pretty - but i'm the shit outta BAGHDAD. Im sexy etc ( followed by internal laughter)"
I also get ALOT more girls numbers than i used to and I think i'm genuinely attracting more women/chicks/girls/females but......
What do you guys and GIRLS inparticularly think. Tooting my own horn? Or ego? Or confident

Sounds like a douchebag 17
Sounds like you are more attractive than you used to be 14
Sounds like boosted confidence 46
Sound like a big ego 13
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  • dom180
    10 years ago | pl

    You sound happy, which is obviously a good thing. Being happy makes you appear much more friendly, which is attractive to most people.

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  • dirtybirdy
    10 years ago

    "My braces make me more attainable."

    Best. Line. Ever.

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    • [Old Memory]
      10 years ago

      No birds allowed.

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  • EmberWillow
    10 years ago

    You sound happier, which is probably boosting your confidence.
    Way to go, confidence (as long as you don't get cocky), can be very attractive.

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  • anti-hero
    10 years ago

    Delusion must be a Heavenly bliss.

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  • worriedgirlhere
    10 years ago

    Listen: You do you. You are awesome. And stay you.

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  • peterr
    10 years ago

    Thats it be confident. I have known guys who were confident but not handsome they got the really nice girls so stick with it. Or become a cocksucker. Up to you.

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals
    10 years ago

    So that PUA crap does actually work?

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