Is it normal to think i'm fat in certain clothes bc of my boobs?

I love shopping but it takes a toll on me mentally. I have a weird body proportion. I have big boobs, wide flat stomach and skinny legs. When I try on dresses, everything fits perfect except my bust area!!! It pisses me off because I'm a size 9 in jeans and my boobs are double d's. Nothing is ever right. :( I even lost a lot of weight but my boobs went nowehere and people now question if I had implants and that's insulting >:( My families genes usually have big butts or big boobs and I got the boob part. I just wish I could stop beating myself up about my appearance in clothes and accept my image 100 or..95.5%. My friends always tell me that I have a great body and that they wish they had my boobs and butt but I think I'm a total fat frumpy freak. My doctor even told me that my body mass is fine but majority is my fatty tissue in my breast. So much for hope for a normal appearance and feeling. Plus when I'm out shopping and girls with small or no breast look at me like I'm some skank. I'm like uhhh don't judge me I am who I am..bi*** lol :\

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  • NoraBaker

    Well, sounds to me like you gotta be "I'm like uhhh don't judge me I am who I am..bi*** lol" to yourself, not to others. ;)

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  • Whatever happens, don't listen to what morons have to tell you.

    It exasperates me how someone can be told great things about themselves and yet all it takes is one negative comment by some fool, to destroy it all.

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  • Nikkigall11

    Actually I have the exact same problem I have big boobs 34DD acutually and really curvy curves and a flat stomach and when I go to the pool lol female lifeguards also look at me like I'm a slut but I guess it sometimes bothers me but at least I have something right ? It's really not abnormal because my mom has big boobs .its nothing to be ashamed of (; love your body the way it is

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  • "I'm a size 9 in jeans and my boobs are double d's."

    I just wanked furiously.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    This is a common issue with women who have hourglass figures.

    If they wear something fitted for their chests, the rest of it looks loose and lumpy. If they wear something fitted for their wastes the boobs look bad because they're squished & the top is too tight.

    What you need to do is find stores that cater to women who have curves, instead of going to the stores that just cater to women with boy-shapes.

    You might also want to consider having at least one or two dresses or outfits tailored specifically to fit your figure.

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  • AnorexicDoll

    Um I wish I had double D. Lol. Flat stomach, big boobs, show those puppies off. It's not fat, they're boobs.

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  • MrDraper

    Wow, I wish you wouldn't criticize yourself for this, your being your own enemy right now, you sound very appealing.

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  • jazminzs

    I have the same problem ;(

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  • jocyjocy20

    I do not buy clothes to tiny for my body, I'm not retarded. My stomach is tiny because i don't have stomache fat, it's just my boobs

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  • DollyBoots

    I'm the saame(: but I mean i wear jeans or skirt or shorts n layer(: it's best to layer because I have an undershirt that is long enough to cover my chest n my normal shirt that looks pretty, n a cardigan that covers me..... I guess that's just my preference.... But no offense mby your shopping for clothes that are to tiny for you :/

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  • VioletTrees

    I'm the same way, except that my thighs are awful. Dresses that fit in the waist don't fit over my chest, and it's really weird how people give busty women looks like we're being indecent just by existing. I feel like my breasts are fat and awkward on my body.

    I went through the same thing losing weight. I was really looking forward to going down to a C or even a B cup, but my breasts went nowhere, even after I lost over 40 lbs. When I was losing weight, some people even had the nerve to tell me "I hope your breasts don't get smaller!" and "What about your boobs?", as if it was a given that I want large breasts. It was rude.

    People are always telling me things like "Tons of women would love to have boobs like yours!", and it doesn't help me AT ALL. The fact is, I don't like having large breasts. What other women want doesn't change that. What men like doesn't change that.

    OP, you're not alone. You're probably not a "fat, frumpy freak", but you're definitely not alone in being uncomfortable with having large breasts. You can try to come to terms with your body, or you can save up for and research breast reduction. It's your body, and it's your choice how you want to deal with it.

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  • From the way you describe it, it does sound like you have a nice body in all honesty.

    Tone up those legs a little and they wont come across as so skinny.

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  • Captain_Kegstand

    Psh, sounds like you are your own worst critique to me! Dress in a way that appeals to you in the mirror and let everybody that hates be damned.

    Sounds like you have a great body BTW, be proud of it, women get expensive painful surgeries to have boobs like yours!

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    • VioletTrees

      Women also get expensive, painful surgeries to get their breasts shrunk.

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  • izzy2012

    Same with me!

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  • GuessWho

    BOOBS!!!

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  • jocyjocy20

    I think it's the mirrors too sometime as well and me being really hard on myself. I feel like if someone is going to be hard on me, I'd be the hard one on myself. But I'm learning to just accept..just not fully yet

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  • Redcoats

    Just love who you are (: I bet you are beautiful

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  • jucedaguy

    I'm thinking that would be a real bitch. If I was a chick I'd hate that shit. I love a girl in a dress, but if it don't fit right that would be shithouse. Don't go down the mumu road though... That ain't a dress lol.

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  • sassafrassi

    I bought this top and at the time it looked perfect (damn those dressing room mirrors! >.<) only to realize later on that I don't have enough boobs to fill it out. It's still a nice top but it's a little loose in the yayer region.

    ...Bi***es be bi***es. :)

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  • jocyjocy20

    thanks..I need to start thinking like that.:D it just sucks because i don't feel compfortable half the time but I feel like I'm deserving to look right but it's aggravating

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  • LizardSkin

    I think this calls for a fashion show. Start it off OP.

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