Is it normal to think i'm a virgin when i had "sex" with a girl?

So, about a couple of years ago, I had a friend (Let's call her A). She and I had sleepovers together and whenever she would sleep over at my house we would always do some "questionable" stuff. It started small with kissing and grinding and stuff of that nature. But one night it went a bit far, we rubbed genitals (Mind you, I am also a female), We didn't put anything in ourselves other than a little bit of our fingers. But after that, I still called myself a Virgin. Am I really still a virgin or am I just in denial?

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  • trexagireve

    The only way to answer you that is to let me put inside you my 8 inch testing tool so we can find out if you are or you aren't Virgin..

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  • SkullsNRoses

    Virginity is a social construct. Forget penises, forget hymens. As a wise lesbian on YouTube once said “Your first time is when it FEELS like it’s your first time”.

    It doesn’t sound like this is the case for you, you seem to consider what you and A did to just be heavy petting. Which is valid and ok. As the YouTube lesbian said, it’s your first time when it feels like it.

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    • _her_

      Thank you

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  • Did you cum?

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    • _her_

      No, it felt too weird

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      • To bad, anyway, because you didn't cum I would still classify you as a virgin

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  • libertybell

    You are still a virgin. In order to not be a virgin anymore, a penis has to go in your vagina.

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    • Skarmatic

      How sad that people still view this as true.

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    • DeadRatKing

      So then lesbians are all actually virgins because they've never been with a guy? That doesn't make any sense honestly.

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