Is it normal to think i can't commit?

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So, I have never really been in a long term relationship except when I had a girlfriend way back in Elementary school for like 3 years but since then, most of my relationships have lasted a month at most, mostly because I kind of get bored and stop talking to the chick, I know it sounds douchebaggy but hear me out, I really want to fall in love, I've fallen in "love" a couple of times but I don't think I'll ever be able to truly commit I mean I hear about people who have been married 20+ years and I just think about how long that is and I don't think I can stay with a person that long.

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  • ccjigsaw
    10 years ago

    I have a female friend who's like that. Her longest relationship...4 months. He grew side burns, his jaw clicks when he eats. You name it, it didn't work. For people like her, I say, just don't get in relationships. Honestly, relationships aren't for everyone, you don't have to follow like a sheep and try to stay long term with a girl cause that's what it looks like everyone else is doing. I'd just make sure to make it clear to a girl that you're not that type of guy ahead of time so you're not breaking any hearts

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  • Sugarcoateddoll
    10 years ago

    I think it depends on the person. Some people are just not meant to be in a long relationship and just be bachelors... But if you want to change that, you should probably talk to someone about it, im sure it can be changed if you really want it.

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  • thegypsysailor
    10 years ago

    I know it sounds hokey, but when the right one comes along, everything will change.
    Be patient.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    10 years ago

    oh well.

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