Is it normal to think i am unattractive?

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Okay, let me describe myself first. I'm 5'3'' and medium sized. I wear a 34D bra, my stomach isn't flat but it's toned. My legs touch and I have a medium perky butt. I am tan and blonde with blue eyes.
I feel very uncomfortable when I go places, I just feel ugly. Guys tell me I'm beautiful and sexy sometimes. My dad's friends always talk junk to him about his "hot" daughter and how I'm gunna be there wife one day. I feel like they just say that to make me feel good ya know. I never catch guys looking at me but people say they always do. I also am in a fire dept and I'm the only girl, my chief calls me sexy and flirts with me alot. I feel like the other guys talk about me behind my back, I'm not sure if it's good or bad. I'm just very insecure is it normal to feel this way even if you're attractive?

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  • andiforoncedonthatehumans
    10 years ago

    yes your immature and an attention whore grow up.(bluntly said)

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    • southernbelleblondeedition
      10 years ago

      I don't recall asking for rude comments.

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      • andiforoncedonthatehumans
        10 years ago

        no you didnt but since you asked a question i answered.Rude comment or not you do know this is true.

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals
    10 years ago

    "I feel like they just say that to make me feel good ya know."

    Guys don't do that unless they want to get into your pants but then again they only want to get into the pants of girls they find attractive so that leads us back to your original premise which can't be true.

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  • kelili
    10 years ago

    You're tan and blond and have blue eyes. Some girls are actually very beautiful but not attractive. Attractiveness is not just a matter of how beautiful you are but more of the feeling you create in people.

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  • Roger_Maxson
    10 years ago

    You sound pretty nice to my taste and apparently to many other people's taste if people act like that around you. I'm a male.

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  • megadriver
    10 years ago

    From that description, I think you look pretty good. No need to call yourself ugly.
    Get over it! I really hate it when girls say "I'm ugly!"
    One time my girlfriend came to me and said: "I'm so fat and ugly I can't stand it!" I told her she looked exquisite! She was as pretty as a summer's day! But she said "No i'm ugly!" I hate it when women do that!
    Get over it! You are beautiful! If you weren't, us men wound't want to be with you!

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  • Anime7
    10 years ago

    If a lot of people tell you that you're attractive then believe them, learn to take a compliment. Personally, you sound beautiful. Also your Dad's friends sound really immature and like the type of people that only want to get in your pants.

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  • I_Love_Big_Boobs
    5 years ago

    I'd love to wear your 34D bra. :)

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  • rubber
    10 years ago

    I need to explain that we must learn that we are all equally traped inside a body that comes to life, hurts and bleeds and then dies and rot like anyone elses, so there is no need to feel inferior in any way; we must persuit equality, we are one race, the human race and we must respect ourselves and eachother, that's all we have, cheers!

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  • theseeker
    10 years ago

    I agree, if guys are flirting with you then you must be attractive. People aren't going to go out of their way to compliment you if they don't mean it. I don't understand how you woman can be so pessimistic at times. Trust me I'm a guy, we are pretty simple minded. You should feel pretty good about yourself. I know IF girls were going out of their way to flirt with me (of course that's not the case) I would feel pretty good. If you were unattractive then you wouldn't be getting that attention. The reason you probably never catch guys looking is it would be pretty awkward if we made that noticeable. From the sounds of it, you have more reasons to believe you are beautiful than ugly, so use that as confidence.

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