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i look in the mirror and see a monster. i look at everyone else in the world and ALL people seem to be drop dead gorgeous and supermodels. is this normal?
There's no such thing as ugly. Every thing is based on opinion, so whether you're 'pretty' or 'ugly' is entirely based on the point of view of others, and yourself.
All people are filled with a deep self loathing, but it has no bearing on reality.
only good looking people get anywhere in life. Only good looking people find love in all forms (from family to boyfriends/girlfriends). Ugly people (and i seem to be the only one) are alone, beaten, ridiculed, hated, stepped on, stupid, worthless pieces of trash (i apologize to all the trash i have offended by calling myself a piece of trash).....i'm less than trash, less than anything else in existence.....less than everything that ever was or ever will be.
i look about 1,000lbs....i seem to have bald spots.....my skin is zits and flaking and wrinkles and moles and oozing puss. i have 10 chins.....my eyes are the colour of poo. no matter what i do or how hard i scrub myself i look like i have rolled around in mud and i smell REALLY bad.
Am I right in thinking you're a teen?
Many teenagers feel shit about themselves physically. We change too quickly to keep up, we get spots, we look weird. Then if you're overweight that's one other physical aspect to concern yourself with.
But I can guarantee the majority don't see you how you see you. You probably look far worse to yourself than anybody else. It's a rough ride and you'll get to the end of it in all likelihood accepting, maybe even liking, what you see in the mirror.
Whether or not you're a teen, then it's something you can work on to boost your self-esteem. There are a couple of clichéd but potentially effective techniques to try. One is to look in the mirror and try to point out one physical aspect you like, or at least don't hate. Maybe it's your nose, maybe it's your mouth, ears, eyes, hair, ANYTHING. And focus on that part of you. When you next look in the mirror, remind yourself of that bit you don't mind. Then challenge yourself to find another part of you you think isn't bad. Focusing on the positives is a big step, and it can be difficult. You could even ask a good friend what they think is a good physical feature of yours. Might be embarrassing, might be awkward, or it might make you see yourself from someone else's perspective, in a positive light. Just some ideas anyway. Good luck :)
Why was your comment thumbed down? If it's how you feel about yourself it doesn't deserve to be dismissed!
Brown eyes look gorgeous. Tell me you have black hair too and olive skin and I bet I'd find you beautiful.
if you were the only person in the world and their was no one else to comment on the way you looked would it still matter to you if you were ''attractive''
If you are in your teens or 20s, you will probably outgrow it and you will discover and realize as you get older what a cool and lovely and unique person you are. But how fortunate are those who decide to pretend they have already outgrown self-loathing and can enjoy their youth while they are still young.
Go on YouTube. Type in "Elephantitus", or "Tree-man", or just 'face deformities'. You'll feel a lot better about yourself there, lad.
Not everyone can look good. It is unfortunate, but doesn't mean you can't live life.
What r u worried about? If u r then enter a contest for ugly fucks and win it. Get Guinness to confirm it. Revel in the disgusting piece of ugly, double bagged, so ugly your hand refuses to give you sexual relief, hookers pay you to not hire them, butt ugly self. Be the best ugly fucker there is.
Maybe you are ugly. Don't trust that people you know, or people who feel sorry for you will tell you the truth. Do you have pics?
This will make you feel better.
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