Is it normal to think i already know who my soulmate is?

I knew this boy when I was a child, he's the same age as me, he was my childhood boyfriend, we did everything together.

He got taken away with his parents who moved far away and we lost contact.

A few years later out of the blue when I was 14 they turned up at our house, I was shocked... He walked into our lounge and the most weird thing happened.

It felt like there was a path between me and him and everything else had gone into very slow motion, it only lasted a minute but I wish I could have stayed in that moment forever, I think my heart actually skipped a beat... I don't think i'll ever experience anything like that again, it was just unreal.

I was so shocked that I ran out the room and when I got back he'd gone again.

Now i'm 22 and have him on facebook, he has a girlfriend and I don't feel any jealousy but I genuinely 100% believe that he's my soulmate. I don't know if he felt the same in the moment as I did, i'm never gonna tell him this.

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  • narwhalkisses

    You have too tell him! If you don't, you may never get the chance. Girl, you have to do it! Trust me!

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  • DefinitelyNotNormal89

    How do you talk these days? Just through facebook? Is it every day? I think it's odd for a 14 year old to experience such emotion, I'm 22 and I haven't got a clue what love is!
    Have you not had boyfriends since? You've wrote this as though for 8 years you have obsessed over this moment and have not been able to let it go.
    The last thing in the world you should do is come between him and his girlfriend, if you are "soulmates" then you WILL get together as it is meant to happen, but you only live once so why not approach the subject? Ask him how he felt when he saw you 8 years ago? I think ruling out telling him is a bit drastic as wouldn't you want to know?
    The heart wants what the heart wants, don't hold back!

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  • whens hes single ask him out take the first steps and youll never know what will happen after that :D

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  • Avant-Garde

    At some point, you're going to have to tell him. It's better to say it than to forever keep it to yourself! If you keep it to yourself, you'll never know if the two of you could've been. Unless... Anyway, it's better to pluck up the courage and tell.

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