Is it normal to think he'll never make me feel loved

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I'm laying here wondering if it's a stress reaction for our upcoming wedding or me just feeling insecure because I'm 7months pregnant with our second child but I can't help but cry thinking he'll never make me feel loved again. I know he loves me, he's proved this countless times, mainly just for putting up with the complete dickhead I've been but I don't feel loved! In the decade we've been together (from the age of sixteen) we've been through so much! Obviously growing up together that's inevitable but sometimes I think I've exhausted his ability to love me, I know he must do, but I don't feel it, I don't want him to fawn over me (or maybe I do?!) and I know I big chunk of the problem is me not feeling worthy of him but I don't know, am I stressing out over the wedding? Or being affected by evil pregnancy hormones? Either way I hate crying especially when I've got it so good, a gorgeous man who'd never do me wrong, a son so perfect he's unbelievable, a little girl on the way and a wedding to my best friend pretty much sorted. Am I just being a total girl?

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  • Sheppard
    10 years ago

    Yup, you're a girl alright.

    It's most likely both your pregnancy hormones and your upcoming wedding pressures.

    Some females like to try to cause chaos when there is none because they either have low self worth or they were abused when younger so they seek excitement.

    Chill out and stop causing problems or you will end up damaging your relationship with your man and family.

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  • (s)aint
    10 years ago

    What is it that makes you feel as if he doesn't love you?

    Is it something that he does/doesn't do any-more or is it all truly in your head?

    As others have said I'd take a step back and enjoy the wedding and the pregnancy, I guess it's natural to have these doubts when you are about to make such a great commitment to one person.

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  • pawsnclaws
    10 years ago

    It is perfectly normal to feel this way. First of all two big things are on the way. Wedding and a baby. Try to relax a bit honey because it won't be good for you or the baby. U have nothing to worry about. Everything will be ok.

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