Is it normal to think black girls have bad attitudes?

Before i get crucified let me say i am a black male who likes black girls. Their skin color and bodies are really attractive but prefer to date other races. I prefer dating outside my race because not all but the majority of black girls I meet are rude, loud mouth, and carry themselves unlady like. Black girls will say ooo you can't handle a strong black woman. This is funny to me cuz i don't know when having a bad attitude became equal to being a strong black woman. I like for a girl to have her own thoughts and opinions this is an attractive quality. However, you can be strong with these qualities and still be lady like. Talking like a man and being vulgar is not cute at all. A guy that just wants to "Hit" will put up with it until he's tired of it. Don't get me wrong im from the streets of Los Angeles and I do like a girl with a ghetto side to her but is also classy.

This is the reason why I came to the assumption most black girls like the "thug personality," because he will deal with you more than others.
My assumption is:
1. Hood Niggaz but to keep the thread classy im a say Hood Dudes have less of a chance to date a professional type women so adjust their personalities to date aggressive type females (usually black women).
2. Professional men usually won't date a girl with an aggressive type attitude and therefore date the other races. This leading girls with an aggressive type attitude (usually black women) to date Hood Dudes.

These are only a few of my thoughts. So women of all races PLEASE tell me what you think fellas included. I am truly interested and again im not saying all black girls are this way, but the majority I meet are. The majority of girls from other races I meet are not like this. Hopefully I get some mature answers and feel free to ask me questions to further the discussion because by no means do I know it all.

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  • nightmare28

    Trust me buddy, there are many white girls with bad attitudes as well, its all about how they were raised.

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  • IvyLockett

    Some do some don't. I agree with you, some black girls have bad attitudes. It's just how they were raised I assume. But then some have class, are genuine, and aren't loud and rude. Try finding one, you'll see.:)

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  • KeddersPrincess

    They do. And this is coming from a black female herself.

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  • Oasis808

    Please don't generalize like this. It's like, I have spoken to few black females but none of them meet your description. You most likely have only meet certain types.

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  • gncp

    Maybe n0t all... I thnk that blck grls lvng 0n ur area r the only bad 0nes, thre r factors that affects any0ne's prs0nality
    1. Culture
    2. C0mmunty/ envr0nment
    3. Genes
    4. Beliefs
    ... to name s0me

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  • DavidS.

    i am white ...but i will offer my observations on black women...but i do so asking their forgiveness and indulgence...first of all ...they are all unique individuals ...but as you point out there is some cultural similiarities...also there is some overlap between class and race...the whole in your face style is typically among lower socio-economic groups and cities....as people become more educated they lose that street style....

    anyway back to black women...slavery was very traumatic and destructive towards the development of healthy family life for black people as individuals could be sold out of the family...this produced a painful sense of uneasiness within the family system...however, since even slaveholders realized that someone had to raise the children...black men were therefore more likely to be sold out and traded as opposed to women..even in somewhat intact slave families...that threat still permeated and so gradually women became the emotional backbone of the family...they were the ones that raised the children...this is not to say their were not strong black men...just that even they realized they could be sold and gradually recognized black women as the real center of the family....overtime even black women started to not fully count of male support...they became used to being the rulers of the family.....

    this unfortunately was compounded by history and lingering american racism and segregation...as the great black exodus occurred after the civil war and black americans left the south for the northern cities....black men found work in factories, shipyards, and industrial plants and black women found work as domestics..up until after world war 2 there were these jobs but gradually the factories shut down and more and more black men were put out of work...however the female domestic jobs remiained... black women in many instances became the sole bread earner through domestic jobs...forcing black men to move around and look for work...which resulted again in the black woman being the center of family life...as black northern areas reached high unemployment the modern ghetto emerged(compunded by racist business practices)...

    finally as the modern welfare system of relief emerged this trend was given even stronger force because not grant relief to families in which there was an able bodied male living there...this forced the black poor man to leave his family so they could get aid..

    therefore through a long and painful history women became the backbone of black family life and became used to "wearing the pants" so to speak....this produced a lot of that stand up attitude...unfortunately the stress and strain ofpoverty and living in the ghetto furthered it to the point of obnoxious condescension...and this is the attitude you speak of

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    • MalabuBarbieā˜†

      Really u just wrote a whole essay in a comment lmfao :D.

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