Is it normal to think after sex one should consider it a relationship?

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Internet dating.. never an easy or straightforward thing. However, when you post what your intentions are, what you're looking for and what you expect in return. There really shouldn't be a lot left to question.
So, I meet someone, we click and decide we'd like to get together again. We chat online and via text message often. We chat a little naughty, but nothing too hot and heavy. Our schedules never match up and so getting together in person is an issue.
Last minute plans are formed and in a weak moment I invite him over to "snuggle" (as he put it) and sleep over. I'm determined to not be a sl*t and have sex right away. But a little smooching and heavy petting isn't out of the question... and ultimately does happen.
I hear from him off and on, but our schedules don't make for getting together soon. As time passes things get sketchy... no more chatting, disregarded emails...
Was I wrong to think we'd maybe be dating? Or did I just get played?
I'm cool with either.. but just want to know for sure.

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  • 1000yrVampireKing
    11 years ago

    Why do you people all think that this is going to work? You think if you sleep with someone that they will love you? You think this means they will marry you? Are you mad? Sex=love=lies! If someone has sex with you it is not for the reason they love you it is for your body. If someone who loves you has sex with you it is lust and love.

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  • xxrawr11wtfxx
    13 years ago

    And yea I'm a chick

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  • xxrawr11wtfxx
    13 years ago

    Uhmm. You're the one who f***ed him...you shouldn't expect him to have to be tied down into a relationship for YOUR mishap. It obviously wasn't his intent to be in a legitamite relationship. You need to know what you're doing BEFORE you do it.

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  • RomeoDeMontague
    10 years ago

    Well if I had sex with someone it would be someone I intended to stay with. However most people are not this way and you cant expect that. You need to understand the reality that simply sleeping with someone will not make them love you. You need to realize that this is not sealing the deal some people just get bored and want to fuck. So its silly to assume "Oh I fucked them that means where together right"? No it does not mean you are together. Not everyone sees sex with importance. I mean I do but hey thats just me. Most people are not like ME.

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  • Sweetz
    13 years ago

    It happends

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  • Ntoxicated
    13 years ago

    Sounds like he played you. :(
    Schedule conflict or not, you try your best to txt back and stuff. Even if it's a little late, you apologize and try harder next time. He sounds like a dick.

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  • MercedesBenz
    14 years ago

    I am curious of these new developments.

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  • SwimBikeRun
    14 years ago

    As they say on sex and the city.... He's just not that into you...

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  • scuba4life
    14 years ago

    You just got played.

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  • leeroybrown
    14 years ago

    i say hes a cunt

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  • Alaxett
    14 years ago

    I say he's a player.

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    • witchygoddess
      14 years ago

      Thanks for the reply.. new developments have occurred and confused the matter further. But I still think I got played.. or am being played.

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