Is it normal to think about someone you barely know?

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I'm really aggravated and confused with myself. I met this guy and his friend at a festival a couple of months ago. This guy was really nice, sweet and funny. My friends told me they thought he was flirting with me, but I don't know. I never had a boyfriend and I'm 18 soon to be 19 in two months. I really can't get this guy out of my mind. Sometimes he even pops up in my dream. I don't even remember his name, all I can remember is knowing I loved his personality and his looks by far is a 10. I feel really inferior to him, one of the main reasons I didn't pursue him. I really don't wanna get my feelings hurt, but it's like he won't leave my mind. These thoughts are like really aggravating and I really need advice. My friend told me that maybe it's the "universe" telling me to go for it. I conversated with this guy for literally ten minutes, and he been in my head for months.

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  • thegypsysailor
    10 years ago

    Right off the bat, why in the world would you think yourself "inferior" to this guy or anybody else, for that matter?
    You are unique, one of a kind and not in any way comparable to any other person on this planet. You are "inferior" to NO ONE!
    If this guy interests you so, get off your ass and figure out how you can spend some more time with him. Find out if you two work.
    Of course, nobody wants to get hurt, but why would you not take the chance; what exactly have you got to lose at this point?
    I'm old and near death, but I ain't going out regretting the things I DIDN'T do.

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  • aussy123
    10 years ago

    Thank you all for your advice, some were blunt but true. Hopefully if I see this guy again, I'll give it a try.

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  • KeddersPrincess
    10 years ago

    Ah, reminds me of a lyric from a nice Tempations song. "I never met her but I can't forget her."

    Although in your case it would be "I never met *him but I can't forget *him." But you get what I'm saying.

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  • Shelbs
    10 years ago

    Personally, I want to know that I did everything within my power. This applies to relationships as-well. Don't let something pass you by or you may forever look back and wonder why.

    If you like him this much then go for it. There are only two outcomes possible: He either likes you or he doesn't. And him not liking you isn't as bad to face as regret. At least then you'll know that it wasn't going to work and you won't have to think about all of the "what if's".

    Trust me, you need to at least try. I have been through this before and the guy ended up liking me back. It was great.

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  • tripw7
    10 years ago

    Very normal. You may not have been active before your encounter with this very impressive guy. It's nice to think about him as you are.

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  • handsignals
    10 years ago

    Have you got a polaroid app on your iphone so everyone knows your having new age fun with a vintage feel?

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