Is it normal to think about other guys when having a boyfriend?

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I've been in a serious relationship for about a year and half now. I love my boyfriend, and he is everything a girl would want and what a dad would want for a daughter (yeah, he's THAT guy.) He's literally perfect. But sometimes i find myslef thinking about other guys. I have no reason to, because everything i am looking for is in my boyfriend, but sometimes i think about other guys. Sometimes i think its because i sort of miss the single life. But, its not like im going to break up with my boyfriend. Are these thoughts about other guys normal?

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  • Sarisa
    13 years ago

    Definitely, it's a part of being human to be attracted to other people even in a relationship. Attraction isn't just something you can turn off and on. It just happens.

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  • xxxbeautifullybrokenxxx
    13 years ago

    It is not normal to think about other guys when you have a perfect awesome bf. Once the relationship starts going downhill then it is totally normal!

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  • lululu
    13 years ago

    unsatisfaction is human nature...we're always complaining about everything. You've got a wonderful boy but u miss your previous life.i Know how it feels because i do the same. I'm in love with my bf cuz he makes me feel secure but sometimes i get bored and my mind flies away...i often dream of an occasional relation. But human fantasy does not have borderlines and there's nothing wrong with it. I bet your bf does the same...so you should not feel guilty for thinking of a cheating as far as it keeps a thought!! you should committ a mistake if you cheated him for real...he would not forgive you as he loves you. ;)

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  • Cookies&Cream
    13 years ago

    Its normal at some point, but make sure you really are in love with your guy and let him know about how you feel if you were not to like him anymore.

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