Is it normal to think about other girls this way

sometimes I think about other girls alot because they are so pretty. I never think about wanting to kiss them or anything, but I just think about them. I don't even think about them naked or, anything sexual, but I'm still scared that I might end up...you know, gay or something in the future.

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  • ladyday

    EVERYONE IS GAY. sex is sex. love is love. trust me, all girls look at other girls and all dudes look at other dudes and they all think about fucking. it's completely normal and even if you wanted to be with a girl, there's nothing wrong with that. just because you like a girl doesn't make you a "lesbian". you don't need to put any kind of label on it. just be yourself! :)

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  • tripw7

    You are very Normal. This is just part of growing up. Some guys really think about other guys. Some gals really think about other gals. This is just the way it is. You will go through this for some time before you are attracted to the opposite sex. Maybe it will be after you thought. Don't worry, it will happen.......been there...

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  • iintolovethissite

    why are people so worried about being gay or straight or bi cant people just be comfortable with their sexuality?? what ever it is and not wory sex is sex who ever its with no?

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  • jrphotographer

    You're probably just comparing or thinking oh I wish I had her hair or looked like her.

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  • I do it too.Not to the point of thinking of them all the time.But it still scares me because lesbians scare me and what if I became one?

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  • kwhatever

    it is perfectly normal. haven't you realized that ALL women's magazines always have lots of pictures of women on them?

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  • styleofthelivingdead

    Don't worry it's perfectly normal. I'm a dude and I can even admire an attractive guy without feeling gay so it should be easier for a girl. I'm 100 percent straight and getting married soon but sometimes you just think about a member of the same sex because on a subconscious level part of you might want to look like them a little. I'm not saying you think "man I wish I could be her" just maybe "wow she has nice hair, I wish mine looked a little more like that sometimes."

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  • uniqueasyou

    Don't worry hun i do think that it's normal for a girl to admire a girl even if it's not sexual at all. just keep going on with your life as normal and see what happens..most likly nothing bad will happen. good luck. just remember everything happens for a reason.

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  • Erica19

    Yes it's very normal just because you think another girl is pretty doesn't make you gay. I think tons of girls are pretty and I'm totally strait.

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  • lalalandXD

    ye same for me, like i was soo oscared n i thought about it like all the time, but i no im attracted to guys, so ye, n besides, i had this time when i always thought about it so like every time i just noticed girls n stuff (even if they were extremley ugly) n stuuf, but only when i thought about it, so i was rly scared but its lways like that for me, hat i make kyself think i am something, or have disease n all that stuff, n suddenly i start thinking about it and diagnosing myself, or like noticing that stuff. u no, i think it also has to do a bit with hormones n stuff, n all teenagers think about it smtimes, so its ok i guess.

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  • joliegems

    It is normal. That's why lesbianism is cool/hot and homoism is nasty!!

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    • Schythl

      Just like fire is cold and shorts are long...

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  • libertine

    How should I know? I am not a physician.

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