Is it normal to think about myself this much?/change my personality?

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I'm currently 18. My whole life has been...let's say I have changed my personality completely such as from talkative, outgoing person to just quiet and nice guy. I've had totally different experiences by having those two different personalities. They are results of my thinking process. I consider myself as "thinker," who thinks a lot. I think about myself everyday and check if I am improving as my life goes on. At night before I go to bed, I always think about what I did right and wrong. when I see those "wrong" things that I've done, I remember those and change myself so I don't do those "wrong" things again. But like I said before it goes from outgoing to quiet person. It's always extreme personality like there's no middle. It's really hard for me.. I find myself little more sensitive than others but do anyone really do this? like think about what happened and change personality things... I need some help about this... :/

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  • fralanasko
    12 years ago

    I have this same problem. I used to be really outgoing and talkative... now i'm so afraid of saying something stupid or being annoying that I come accross as uninterested in other people and frosty. It sucks, I don't know how to find the middle ground and now i'm so lonely that i'm actually becomming frosty.

    I think when you're sensitive it's hard not to over-analyze

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    I don't know why doing right / wrong things would change you from out-going to quiet!!

    Ok. If you're rude to someone, you may feel guilty and become kind but why would it alter your volume button? I think it's good that you are learning from your actions and growing as a person but eventually it will become second nature. When you stop over-analyzing your actions you'll know you've finally grown up. Then, time flies in!!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      my personality changes as I see those stuff I do. I go from outgoing to quiet because when I'm talking to someone, I hear that I get too annoying.. and I try to keep it down a little but then it goes all the way down :/

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      • joybird
        12 years ago

        I'm sure it's more what you're saying than your volume, although volume does go up with more alcohol. Just shrug it off and forget about it coz I'm sure that person has, especially if they are a friend of yours.

        I think I know what you mean now - you get a little embarassed and can't carry on as normal. That happens to us all but don't let it change you for the next time you are out.

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