Is it normal to think about myself like this?/:

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This may sound stupid, but I'm chubby, and I feel like people are always looking at me weird or they always talk bad about me. I've had a few boyfriends before, but nothing too serious.. I'm scared in gonna end up alone cause of it.. I honestly don't eat very much at all! And it is really hard for me to work out because I have rheumatoid arthritis and have had it my whole life, which has made me always chunkier.. :/ I feel totally restricted because all my friends always want me to go running or work out with them to help me feel better of myself, but I just can't. Do guys like girls that are chubby? And am I normal for feeling like this?

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  • ygrowup
    12 years ago

    The guys that are not willing to overlook another persons shortcomings is not the kind you would be happy with anyway! Work on having a open and great personality and you will meet a great guy that loves all of you!
    Lots of guys don't like the skinny ones,and if you are on steroids for your treatment there is other drugs and help out there to help with wright problem, work on that also just to be healthy though!

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  • geofrey333
    12 years ago

    Ah HAH! Finaly my life experiences are useful to someone else!! I HAVE THE ANSWER. You dont eat much because you dont burn a lot of energy. And since you dont eat much your metabolism is very slow. (Downside, weight gain and low energy, upside longer life span IF you are not heavy)! Every time you consume more calories then you burn AT ALL it becomes more fat.

    THIS IS HOW YU FIX IT. Your body has become used to specific kinds of foods.. cumfort foods. Im my case it was bread and pasta. Pure carbohydrates. SO I switched to a hing protine VERY LOW carbohydrate diet eight years ago. (meat fish and eggs mostly). I added bike riding to spead up the process and lost forty seven pounds in five months! When I stiped the diet and went back to the foods I love in moderation I regained twelve pounds. But after all this time im still ahead thirty five pounds.
    YOU CAN DO THIS!!!!

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    • geofrey333
      12 years ago

      NOTE: I limited myself to eight carbs a day. This si not easy on your heart, but its easier on it then staying heavy. ESPECIALY if your under thirty.

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  • sharmander
    12 years ago

    My boyfriend wants me to get chubbier. He likes me better thick but I don't >.<

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  • TyLee
    12 years ago

    There really is no excuse not to exercise. I HATED exercise but it's important so I do it. I do hard workouts but because of your arthritis try light exercise. If you can walk in sure you can do a medium-fast paced walk on the treadmill for like 30 minutes, 20 reps on a leg machine, and 10 reps on your arms at a very light weight. That is a fairly low intensity workout that will give you results. Also watch your diet. Try to cut out as much meat and dairy as possible and obviously artificial sugars. There are reasons why but this is getting long and i don't know if you care lol... If you are going to attempt to exercise don't worry too much about carbs because you'll need energy but still don't over do it. Anyway if you have no interest in losing weight than some guys like chubby girls. Probably chubby guys but still. The main goal for you is to be confident with yourself. Think about what will make you more confident, whether it's losing weight or getting a new hairstyle or clothes..confidence in yourself is important because guys will see that and like you for it.

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  • sandinmyambergerbuns
    12 years ago

    beauty is subjective. what is beautiful to some may be ugly to others and vice versa. so chances are there is always someone who is attracted to girls who look like you no matter how you look.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    You shouldn't feel bad about yourself. And trust me, you're not going to be alone for the rest of your life. There's so many guys out there that love chubby girls, just because your chubby doesn't mean you can't get a boyfriend. Who says you have to be skinny to be hot? You shouldn't feel this way, all girls are beautiful in their own way.

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