Is it normal to think about murdering family members?

Cross your mind maybe...but to fantasize about it and plan it...you need help.

yep, i thought about murdering people all the time when i was younger. i always figured it was just an animal instinct because if we were out in the wild that would be something we most probably would do. although i only thought about killing ppl i really didnt like, i dnt know why u would think of killing someone you do like... maybe ur subconscious mind is scared that they're going to do to you what uve been dreaming about n wants to prevent it?
its nothing to worry about if u wouldnt actually harm them in any way

I used to visualize killing school bullies using those high high-heeled shoes and stomping on their chests, using the heels as spikes. I used to think I was waaay messed up because of that.

Thankfully, my violent thoughts have stopped altogether.

This is normal! Probably like a good way to relieve stress? The more you think about it the more it's out of your way and you never end up doing anything anyway. Really I have thoughts like this about everyone even if I like them and I haven't done a single thing. =]

You guys are idiots, didn't you even read the damn thing? 'On a conscious level I like them and would never harm them."
Definetly not good though, you should see a psychologist and figure it out.

you want to whack your grand parents now question is why ,what did they do in the past to piss you off what ever it was its not worth it

You in the near future:

gangly malnourished man caught in grandparents bedroom after brutally murdering them. Man has own feces rubbed into scalp and is rocking back and forth at the foot of the bed. Confessed to the crime and told police that grandma and grandpa told him to do it in his dreams.

Have fun in the nuthouse, you fuckin whackjob.

It doesn't mean anything and in fact that it upset you so, is obviously quite the contrary to how you feel towards them. Who knows what dreams actually mean - fear, anxiety that a good relationship turns horrid - or just indigestion - really, who knows when dreams are such random thoughts in a silly putty world? Relax about it.

What you dream about reflects your inner most fears, desires, wants ect. So figure out what's symbolic to what in the dream to the real world. That might help you get clear. Maybe you've felt so strongly hurt by your grandparents that the pain is equivelant to death . Hope that makes sense!