Is it normal to think about having sex with every woman i meet?

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Whenever I seem to meet with a girl/woman, the first thing I think about is how it would feel to have sex with them. I imagine them in several different positions, with me between their legs. Its really hard to not think about this, but it can be really distracting when the entire point of my discussion usually ends up trying to get them into bed.

It makes monogamy impossible, I can't control myself unless its someone i'm completely comfortable with. I can't control myself, or stop myself from cheating...

Is this normal?

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  • Neapolitana
    11 years ago

    Hmmm..it sounds like you are a young man. Perhaps between the ages of 12 and 20? Your honesty is truly refreshing. It sounds like you are at a time in your life when you are very sexually charged, and you should NOT be in a committed relationship (like you said). And there's nothing wrong with that!

    People probably make you feel like you Should have a girlfriend, but if that's not what you want/need, then why should that be your goal?

    On the other hand, if your sex drive has become a kind of an addiction and is hindering your happiness, then of course you should seek help via therapy/books/friends/etc. Good luck!

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Ewwww....some women are just....ewwww

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  • Anime7
    11 years ago

    Lust, it's common.

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  • 53739
    8 years ago

    Do what you want only live once

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  • davetom54
    11 years ago

    i do. doesn't mean i would though. all men do is think about sex. i always wonder what every girls looks like naked. or how she would be in bed.

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  • Riker300
    11 years ago

    Think about it? absolutely normal. Women sometimes don't "get" the wiring but at least until most guys reach 60 years, prostate health issues or erectile dysfunction men think about sexual pleasure 24/7.

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  • AussieGirly
    11 years ago

    Sounded HOT.... Until I kept reading and realised you are in a relationship. I think at this point in your life (as you find it hard to stay faithful) you should do the right thing for both of you and leave your partner to explore your desires. Just remember, just because YOU want to have sex with every woman, does NOT mean they will feel the same way. Try finding sex clubs/ parties to find prople with similar desires that you can explire these feelings but always use protection and become single first.

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  • hahaha...betterlearnfromakid!
    11 years ago

    wait a minute, are you a kid cuz girls are kids....... girls are female children and if you are a grown man...... GET AWAY FROM MEH!

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  • hahaha...betterlearnfromakid!
    11 years ago

    golly good show! @ the smart people out there

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  • Dasani
    11 years ago

    haha, you sound like this guy i know. he was married to who apeared to be the perfect woman, but he couldn't be faithful to her. it's bizarre.

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  • TomLikesPizza
    11 years ago

    Are you in your teens? If not, that's a little problematic.

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  • Mellifluous
    11 years ago

    That is slightly odd. Do you have any idea why you have those thoughts? And have you had them for a long time?

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    when love joins with lust youll love the lust

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  • zchristian
    11 years ago

    That happened to me when the hormones where raging...

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  • Oasis808
    11 years ago

    What do you mean monogamy is impossible? Attraction will always be felt for others it's inevitable.

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  • lilbrownmaria
    11 years ago

    sounds like my brother, are u him???

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  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago

    That's doesn't sound normal and rather creepy.

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  • Icedangel11
    11 years ago

    Wear a rubber band around your wrist. Snap it whenever you have those thoughts. Eventually your brain will avoid them to avoid the pain. It's a conditioning practice. If people question why just say it's for some other reason if you feel uncomfortable. Like, it's a way for you to stop eating when you're hungry. Or an anger management thing. Or it is to stop yourself from having sad thoughts about a childhood trauma. Really anything.

    I used to have a problem where everytime I'd see a white car I'd think about my grandma and get sad. I started snapping and now they don't bother me.

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