Is it normal to think about first love for 5 years after still love?

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The first real love I had and who took my man-virginity she was half Iranian and really beautiful at least to me and seemed like every other dude liked her as well so needless to say I had some jealousy issues which are like kryptonite to a healthy relationship and I ended up using drugs to cope... now I'm clean and it's been so long but I still love her and I think it's a little weird for me to still be thinking about this person. Is it normal?

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  • flyingnostalgia
    8 years ago

    No that is not normal...you need help...you need serious, serious help!

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    • deepfriedfrenz
      8 years ago

      your name is flying "nostalgia"....

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  • NathanScot
    8 years ago

    5 years too long to be pining for someone mate.What do you think she's doing right now.Her mouth is probably deep on someone's ball as we speak .Life goes on noogie.It was good while it lasted but u have u to get urself out there and allow urself to meet someone new,who knows....she might just be what u've been missing.Cheers noogie.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    Of course it's normal. Love just doesn't go away. You can love someone your whole life without ever interacting with them, once you have broken up.
    That doesn't mean you should be together now or that breaking up was wrong. Some relationships are fleeting, but that doesn't make them any less intense than one that lasted years longer.
    Move on and remember her fondly.

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