Is it normal to think about another guy?

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Okay. Id like to start off by saying that im so in love with my boyfriend of almost a year now. He is my life and I don't know what I would do without him. I dont know why, but I keep thinking about this other guy. And I just think about sex with him. That's it. Of course I'm not going to cheat. EVER. I wish to marry my boyfriend and spend the rest of my life with him. But why do I want to do it with the other one? Is this normal?

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  • gowila
    13 years ago

    Fuck the other guy. My wife has sex with other guys, I think it's hot. I know she would never cheat on me.

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    • Lockets
      13 years ago

      Yes, your wife is cheating, big time.

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  • brindyl69
    13 years ago

    Its actually completely normal. Its human nature. as long as you're completely committed to your guy. its fine. its happend to me as well.

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  • Scaper
    13 years ago

    This means your current bf sucks as deep docking your love hole. I'm also guessing this guy you want to fuck is a major cocky dick, I say have a threesome some guys find this hot

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  • You'reBeautiful
    13 years ago

    It's normal, trust me.
    I went through that phase, and i dated my boyfriend for 3 years. I'm sure it's just hormones kicking in. Just, whatever you do, don't follow them. They'll stick you with regret, because I've been there too.
    a year afterwards and im barely getting him back, only problem, he's leaving to the army..within 40 days.

    So dont let it get the best of you.
    you never know the risk.

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  • inlove89
    13 years ago

    Totally normal!!

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  • TeresaBarry
    13 years ago

    Actually it's very normal for someone in a relationship to have fantasies about others. This doesn't mean their going to cheat. All it is, is your mind taking a slight trip to the "what if" part.

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  • Beasty-man
    8 years ago

    It could be normal, but you must think about : why this other guy ? does he different for your Bf ?
    Maybe your aren't satisfy (in sex) so you must speak to your Bf to try other sex game. (try blindfolded sex)

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  • c1s3r79
    12 years ago

    100% normal, everyone fantasies about other people while in a relationship but it doesn't mean you're gonna cheat on him/her.
    If you really want to have sex with this other guy maybe you could suggest a threesome... good luck!!!

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  • JeremyCoster
    13 years ago

    Completely normal, we are all only human

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  • doggystyle529
    13 years ago

    I adore Mywife but I like 20 others ... I'm no interested in no other woman . My wife knows this , she also likes other man but she is interested and commuted to our marrige just like me.... Nobig deal... We must accept it ... Is normal...

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  • NotEverEnuf
    13 years ago

    Very normal! Your just physically attracted to him & everyone has this. If they say they don't I'm not sure that's the whole truth. I love my husband dearly but have been attracted to other men before.

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  • inlove89
    13 years ago

    I uses to be like Eva during the first couple of years of my relationship. But it's only natural to be curious and wonder stuff, especially if u have been with the same person for years. It doesn't mean you will it's just a thought. I am 100% in love and dedicated to my bf but normal to have these thoughts ever now and then.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I agree with Eva.

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  • yayasaga
    13 years ago

    Um lol having sex with other people while your married is cheating lol

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  • lewlew80
    13 years ago

    Normal

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Sorry but when I love someone the only one on my mind is my man. My mind never wanders to the what if part about any other man unless I don't love the person I'm with. So NO it's not normal.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Uhm no it's not normal. If you really are 100% happy and in love with your bf then you wouldn't even be thinking about any other man.

    Maybe it's time to re-evaluate your relationship and if there are problems.

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