Is it normal to think a person who's just sleeping is dead?

When I'm sharing a bed with my boyfriend sometimes I awaken in the night with the sudden, very real thought that he is dead there next to me. I'm in immediate panic mode even before I can wake up enough to get a clear head.

I have to shake him just enough till he stirs or listen for his breathing (he breathes so shallow and quiet!) then my heart stops pounding and I simply go right back asleep.

This seems like a really weird behavior to me. What do you think?

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  • poojunction-r-us

    they are dead.

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  • Terence_the_viking

    I suppose you could tickle their fancy to see if they are dead.

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  • РодинаРоссии

    I often worry that by heart has stopped beating when I concentrate on something and cant feel it beating. I have to check my pulse constantly

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  • bananaface

    I've thought the same before and sometimes I think my dad's dead. It only ever happens when he's been out drinking and when he sleeps, he barely even breathes. I've never thought it was anything too weird.

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