Is it normal to think 40 year olds are hot?

Older men are very sexy to me a lot of times I find them more attractive than younger men. johnny depp is older and looks so good for his age! Hugh Jackman when he played wolverine in x men origins ,oh don't get me started! denzel washington is a fine older man to me too.

I sometimes fantasize about older men. Like if I went to collage and one of my teachers seduced me. Lol

I'm in college and I've dated a 41 year old man but when we were dating he told me that he was 31. The relationship went well and after six months, when things started to get serious (like him meeting my parents) he broke the relationship off. I soon found out that he had been lying to me about his true age. I WAS IN SHOCK because he looked so much younger and lasted in the bedroom. He apologized and now were just friends.

Yep its normal im bi and i think 40 years old man are hot and i got one xD

Yes. Nearly every actor and actress I'm sexually attracted to - for example Johnny Depp, David Tennant, Helena Bonham Carter - all of them are older than 40, and they've aged like a fine wine.

For most people, a hot 40 y/o is as hot as an identical 18 y/o.

However, scientifically, men find women most attractive in the years in which they are most likely to survive childbirth, around the 20s. In this age gap, women are young enough to have a good chance of a successful pregnancy, and to be able to care for the baby and defend it from attackers most effectively once it is born. Therefore, the genetics from the male have the best chance of being pasted on, and this, according to the theory of evolution, is the point of sex.

I don't know the comparison as far as women bring attracted to men is concerned, because I am not sure if the age of a man effects the liklihood of a successful pregnancy. Obviously, there are going to be exceptions with regards to this theory, but the "average attractedness", if that is a real term, is highest in that age gap.

yes because some 60 or 50 year olds on tv are hot im in love with a 24 year old

That's cool

The image was downplayed a bit....NO, MAKE THAT A LOT....when the kid who wrote it mentions males of middle age, over females of the same age bracket.

Perhaps an explanation is that I consider myself mostly straight, whereas it isn't tough to read into the writer's thoughts that he definitely has some gay feelings --- especially at that youthful age.

He may never change, and if that lifestyle suits him, then none of us has any complaints.

Since this guy's post didn't predefine which gender he had in mind, I think it may have been very normal for a lot of us to think of some of the very attractive MILF's.

Beginning at about the same age as the poster, I had summer jobs which brought me into contact with dozens of gorgeous 40 and 50-year olds, all who appeared much younger. All were married with families, but obviously something was missing in their relationships, and they were free in getting that point across.

It helped me in that I was very athletic and tan, and quite personable with them at every opportunity which seemed to be very plentiful. My job was one that took me to their cottages nearly every day. The husbands and young teens were never home when I was there.

Needless to say, each of these women knew their bodies and how to turn on horny young studs at will. Summer wear was limited to tiny bikinis. My first had me help her with her top which ended up on the floor. As she bent to pick it up, she couldn't help but see my raging boner. She gave me a great BJ! Her bottom then dropped and she pulled me down to fuck her on the carpet. God, she was gorgeous and good, and I've no idea if she was 38 or 53 --- it didn't fucking matter! The same thing happened with 11 others like her. They all knew each other; sometimes I wonder if they ever got together and talked how they fucked the grocery delivery boy.

Heck, there's a show about that on the Bio channel, but I think its sort of in the middle of normal and weird.

@Gelmurag

Really? I didn't know that. Well, I didn't know the exact figures, I was just making up something that made sense. Its good to have someone verify the basic concept.

I'm 48 & I love younger women , sex is what you make it

Yeah its normal

im bi and im like tht with men and wimen of all ages :)

if they look good for their age, sure. lol you sound like this girl i know..she's 21 and is in love with bret michaels. if you haven't seen him, look him up.

U just want their money

With men I'm only attracted to my age group (give or take 1 year), I'm attracted to most ages of women.