Is it normal to think 99.9 %% of men just want sex

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Tell me am I right? Were are the real men? Rich men think they can buy love and have you, poor men just get to the point.. I say friends first and sometimes it takes a while to know some one..Can't do friends with benefits that's the next thing I hear. Attraction is good, sex is great but I just want to wait. Does any man out there want to really know a woman without the sex for a time? As it seems it's all about sex and I very rarely go to bars or drink. I'm afraid to say anything to men I'm attracted to just because I might get into a situation,they just want sex in the end no real relationship......just heartache and they probably couldn't keep up with me anyway...

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  • AndILoverHer
    14 years ago

    Short and simple answer, What I want in a woman is Smartness, Beauty, Talent, Niceness, Funny, and most importantly, one that cares about me all the time and who I care for all the time. Don't get me wrong every guy wants sex, but not JUST sex

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    • leahquestions
      14 years ago

      thanks, I needed to know there was .1%% out there that's true to heart. When my health comes back, I won't date someone and give it my all at first, like mindedness is most important. People should be able to show love without saying it, as in thoughtfulness and consideration.. thanks again

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  • Alaxett
    14 years ago

    Wow, that's so narrow-minded... no wonder why you're still single.

    Don't you know that there are men out there who are fouus on find a way to have a meaningful relationship? The bitter trust is, sex is really part of it, it's like we need air to breath.

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    • leahquestions
      14 years ago

      Air to breathe sounds good, love sex but want something meaningful. 2 friends have told me they'd marry me if they thought I'd say yes and one whome would take me anywhere I want to go, but it's for the wrong reasons..These men I haven't been intimate with, I am thankful for their firendship. I am independent and if loosing everything is my final destination then so be it... unrealistic to find a mate at this point in my life...to simplify and get my ducks in a row is what I will be doing.

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  • Joyless
    14 years ago

    Wait just because you don't wanna have sex doesn%%u2019t mean it's wrong for some guy to. You said it yourself that sex is great. I think that the problem is society telly women that they are not sex objects witch is all well and good until they want to be. Then a man can just become a glorified dildo to them. It all seems rather bias against men if you ask me.

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    • BugzBunnae
      14 years ago

      ITs normal to think that, but Its not true. The perverts, lonely men, horndogs, and players just want sex but its not all the men in the world! I was shocked when my boyfriend said that he supports me in waiting until marriage to have sex because that is what he was planning to do anyway! He is an example of a hard-to-find but men like him is out there!

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    • leahquestions
      14 years ago

      It's wrong to get pressured when I've made it clear that I'm not ready.I do get agitated when I haven't kissed a man and they go there. Which is what's happening. I don't care if a man see's another women for sex, when there is no intimatcy or kissing with me. Society has cursed us it seems with the idea that women are sex objects. I do get very frustrated and tend to run away. Have to work on my own house because the ones giving estimates 3 out of 4 have asked for more..don't even know them. Not uncommon that's why I changed dentist , dr's to all female. I can understand if I was in a short skirt with my boobs hanging out but actually I dress down these days,just not impressed. Don't need a mans money got my own just a good intelligent conversation owuld be nice. Maybe trust being crushed one too many times is enough.

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  • CGFE3
    14 years ago

    Men a losers

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  • kingofcarrotflowers
    9 years ago

    Over 50%

    Fuck sake

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  • fbomb
    9 years ago

    I'm looking for a Fwb now. If you want to talk, get to know about each other first even develop an emotional connection, I'm willing to wait I just want to know that upfront you want to haved sex with me. Guys are goal oriented and want to win the prize. Guys want to know more about the rules of how to get what they want out of the relationship before they waste your time and theirs. So is bad that a guy is honest about his motivation upfront? So do you want to make love?

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Yes yes now shut up and bend over :P

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  • chonchburger11
    11 years ago

    Girls want sex just as much..guys just take more pride in it as girls at times get seen as sloots

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  • Ryan556
    11 years ago

    Well before collage I'm geating laid 24/7 here I was in it for love and I still am I just don't like to turn down a naked hot ass chick in my dorm room and I have an only dorm

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  • Heterarch
    12 years ago

    I know women who think that a lot. and a majority of guys back home are that way. It's one of those things, for me I just don't roll that way. It's not about sex. It's about the other individual, value, morals and so forth for me. I'm old fashioned pretty much don't do mainstream things, so sex isn't everything to me.

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  • Uzzie101
    13 years ago

    Think of it this way:
    Is it that they just want sex, or is it you that needs improvment? Not in how attractive you are, but how to help conduct a relationship?

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  • leahquestions
    13 years ago

    THAT IS THE BEST REPLY I'VE GOTTEN AND YOU ARE RIGHT-------- COMMITTMENT IS THE WORD AND AS I'M OLDER THAT'S MORE IMPORTANT THANK YOU

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  • Kilt
    13 years ago

    I think 100% of men want to have sex with a woman they are attracted too. It's natural and normal for them to want this. Hypothetically say if you had 100 men in a room who were attracted to you where in a room I would estimate a very small number such as 5 would want a committed relationship with you. How you find out who these five men are is to make them WAIT!! Most of the players would drop off in 3 months if they didn't get sex!! You would know by the last man standing who was genuine or not!

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  • Arabian322
    13 years ago

    I agree with you , now in this society everyone has become a free spirit . In the olden days women would wear dresses not even allowing them to show their necks but now everything Is changed there are strip clubs and prostitutes so men know now what is under those dresses and skin tight corsets ! It Is hard to find a man worthy and compatible now a days .

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  • Scrat
    13 years ago

    well you haven't met all the men so don't jump into conclusion ! for example I don't see relationship as just sex
    I mean hell sex is not that important

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    The one thing women will never understand.

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  • inlove89
    14 years ago

    Yes normal

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  • omgalexalex
    14 years ago

    im gunna have to go with no. cause i like girls because of their personality. sexyness is just a BIG bonus point. :)

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  • BOYracer88
    14 years ago

    id say 99.9 per cent of us jus want sex, u wanna hook up lol

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  • RedAngelfire70
    14 years ago

    If I didn't know better, I would have thought I posted this before I got a boyfriend. I feel the same way. You're right. Most men want sex. BUT there are some men that don't. I found one.

    When I found out how much of creep my boyfriend wasn't...I jumped on him. We got close and it took a couple years for him to make it official, but he's mine. So they are out there. But 99.9%% of men are definately pigs.

    Like my boyfriend when talking about men with female friends, "There are no friendships when it comes to men and women, there are only girls they haven't fucked yet." I don't completely agree with him...but he does have a point with a large percentage of them.

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  • lulzdude
    14 years ago

    i dont even care enough about my life to be bothered with sex lol, so there you go, add another person to your .1%%

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  • irrevocably_inlove
    14 years ago

    It is very normal to feel that way especially if you have gotten your heart broken because of men just wanting sex. I feel the same way about men. Even though I'm still pretty young and hbe never had my heart broken. I still feel like this about men. It's probably in fear of this happening to me because it has happened to other people. But it may only be normal to me because I feel the same way.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    PSA - EVERYONE ON THIS WEBSITE: BE CAREFUL OF "BUDTHEWISE" - HE IS A FIRST CLASS CREEP, WOMAN ABUSER, RACIST AND IGNORAMUS ... AND PLEASE DO NOT LISTEN TO ANY OF HIS CRAPPY AND ABUSIVE ADVICE. PLEASE!!!

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    • leahquestions
      14 years ago

      I finally let it all out, I commented on its a good thing to have hopes for a new year--and I have hope still. I had to read all the argueing you all were doing. I haven't read this mans comments on some things but will look into it.If you read my comment maybe you'll see a little more of me and who I am. thank you Leah

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      • [Old Memory]
        14 years ago

        PS - I did read it and realize you are quite ill. Hope it all goes well for you.

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      • [Old Memory]
        14 years ago

        Do read his comments. They are disgusting. The one that got me the most was when he told an abused women that she wasn't worth space on this earth, called her a skank and ridiculed her sexually. Then there were the racist smears of half a dozen people. Nice guy. But hey, what do I know?

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        • leahquestions
          14 years ago

          thanks, if some one is writing comments like that I'm surprised they don't knock him off of here. A cold hearted, angry, possibly bi-polar man it seems like. I had some good news yesterday so hopefully I may have a future but only time will tell. It's hard because last summer I ran, lifted weights and played 4.5 tennis and in a matter of months I can barely make it up the stairs.Putting off heart procedures until I can get my business straight and claim bankruptsy. Open heart is a possibility but I'm strong and the ablation and ICD might really help.I use to say if I died I would want to be having sex, better than getting hit by a bus I figure, but now I tell God I was just joking. I'd still like to find a kinky soul who doesn't mind getting shocked by a pacemaker now..LOL I'm almost 49 and the men my age look like my dad and need viagra and the young ones- I can't do.. My son's friend who's 17 told me I was a gilf---typical!I'm a grandma.Life goes by too fast so now I tell everyone to start on a bucket list now while you can still enjoy it and remember it. Looks are deceiving it's what's inside that counts but a man to date my age when people think I'm his daughter instead of a girlfriend is messed up.I just need inspiration which I've lost and that's 80%% of the fight......

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Seems you've had a number of unpleasant experiences and it is true to a degree that women still have a ways to go to be respected & men (not all by any means, but enough louts about); and some men can act like real pigs: the leering, unwanted attention & comments alone, for example.

    Do what you need to to feel safe, respected and in control in your relationships. Where are the real men?

    Don't fish with the wrong bait in the wrong ponds then not like the results. They are not in bars, or doing their friends etc.. Ask yourself what men with decent values do and that will give you a clue where to look, if you want to.

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    • leahquestions
      14 years ago

      thank you, done that been there-- best to go with the flow or go to the fire stations lol

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      • [Old Memory]
        14 years ago

        Good luck!

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  • toddinator716
    14 years ago

    There's plenty of guys out there that want much more than that but you most likely completely block them out of your life.

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  • Laren1
    14 years ago

    Quick fix to this problem, but the catch is it probably won't last, since you sound a little shallow (no offence).

    Go out with the quiet ones. Stop hanging around douchebags and loud popular guys who have huge egos, because yes, all they think about is sex. The less popular quiet ones who have a brain are usually the ones who value a woman for who she is, not for sex.

    Although you sound like you're only attracted to the ones who objectify women. That's your problem, then.

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    • leahquestions
      14 years ago

      Thanks but shallow I'm not. I'd much rather be complimented on subject matters of importance rather than looks. It's best to recognise the red flags as it were and run the other way,but I keep trying to change what can't be changed, always someone with a problem like I can fix it... I'll wait for a man to show me he loves me and doesn't have to say it..and by showing it I don't mean cruises or diamonds, been there done that too. It's the golden rule that's important.

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  • xino00
    14 years ago

    you are single minded!

    you should be able to tell when a man just wants sex.

    You meet them at clubs and parties.
    You should know when they want sex, if they are getting too close to you, wanting to know more about you, taking things pretty fast or contacting you all the time. Plus use of attitude, character and language.

    For being single minded, I think I wanna have sex with you! tap your ass:)

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    • leahquestions
      14 years ago

      I don't meet men at clubs because I rarely go out to bars. Thanks, but I think I'll just stop looking. I just realised that there's a thing called time.. Time is what we all take for granted. If I'm really lucky I might have some time and probably shouldn't be pissed off at the world.

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  • FATFUCKER
    14 years ago

    Did you know the other .01 %% isnt because they just caught their balls in a drawer. Give them 10 minutes to recover and we will be back at the good old safe 100 %% again.

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  • sex_is_dirty_disgust_dangerous
    14 years ago

    Id say 90%% of men think about sex, will have to research more. Most women hate sex, so do I and im a male. If you hate sex, youd be a candidate to date me.

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  • lalaloveyou
    14 years ago

    That's normal, especially with how the media portrays men and sex. It's perfectly okay if you want to wait. Just know that not ALL men only want sex, which I assume is why you said 99.9%% and not 100%%.

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