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I havent talked to my ex in a month. I see him in school everyday but we dont talk. I really miss him and want to be friends. Would he think im weird if i randomly text him?
My ex texted me on the pretence of asking if she'd seen me at the train station on Sunday morning. In actuality, she was probably just craving attention as per usual. She didn't get much. Depending on how you and your boyfriend ended, you might get the same reaction.
I understand where ur coming from. you ever hear that saying, "seperation makes the heart grow fonder" (or something like that) I recently broke up with my bf, and it was all ready for me to move out he had like 3 nites alone and after I came by to visit the dogs, I came back inside and it was evident he missed me. so... the point is, if he's had some space, would be your best luck. although your best bet would be to make sure u look extra cute, but don't make it obvious u dressed up for him. and if u see him at some inawkward moment, just ask him how he's been doing. best yet, try working out a couple days in a row to maximize your odds bcuz u will just feel happier inside and your inner disposition really can make or break that vital moment.. good luck!
I suggest you make sure you're over your feelings. If you're not or you don't think he is don't message him, you may both still need time to completely recover from your relationship. Time is the best healer.
He'll not think you're weird just a typical female who doesn't know what she wants. If you initiated the split, let him be coz he needs time to lick his wounds and anyway you have nothing to say that he wants to hear. If he initiated the split, he's told you loud and clear that he doesn't want you.
The problem is that women always want to talk, talk, talk and men don't!! They only want information and at this moment you need to work out what you have to tell him. 3 months is the normal length of time to give him the space to heal - then you may be friends.
Ir you were more mature you'd know to stay back!
Just be careful, me and my ex split up about 6 months ago because he was a complete prick. Anyway he text me the other day and as I feel completely over him I felt okay to text back, and we were catching up for a few days. This must have meant more to him as he asked up to get back together, I would rather throw myself out of a moving vehicle in hope to become paralysed but I suppose what I'm trying to say is if you do text him as a friend try to make it clear that's all you want to be
You still feel an attachment to him and thats okay because you were together and you still want to be near him. Just dont overexcess it.
think of it this way. it would be more uncomfortable if you two continued not to speak, while at the same time you still miss him and want to be friends with him. it's better to try talking rather then have that reluctant urge floating around in your head.