Is it normal to tell ppl my first & only love died?

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i met this girl through the internet a wile back i was 15 or 16 she was 18 we would talk everyday she had a baby but i didn't mind but anyways life was perfect i was in love with cellphone conversations till one day we just grew apart... i never met her so idk if its true love but ever since she broke my heart i can't feel ANYTHING towards another human being this was 5 or 4 years ago I'm gone be 20 on memorial day but to the few ppl that i spoken to about her i confess this lie that she was killed in a car accident by a drunk driver? I'm currently in collage I'm an athlete I'm in very well shape don't drink don't smoke but when girls talk to me i tend to just say a word or 2 & when they ask me how many gas have i had i say I've never been in love or had a serious relationship... and i honestly feel that way.. can anyone help like the least bit on how to move on? I'm not depressed I'm just annoyed by myself that i still think of her.

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  • Shackleford96
    11 years ago

    It sounds like you need closure. Have you tried looking her up on Facebook?

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  • Tysterkaar
    11 years ago

    maybe you're gay

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  • AintGoodEnough198
    11 years ago

    You probably just can't take the fact that she doesn't want you anymore. She could've found someone better, one that she could see everyday and was there to help her with her baby. The best thing for u to do is try to find a better girl. The one u could see everyday and can show ur love to. Good Luckk...! :) -Came From A Ghurl Btw.

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  • wasjusthinkin
    11 years ago

    let the past RIP ;)

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  • wasjusthinkin
    11 years ago

    Love is a pain in the ass...I suggest you start making some friends. Not that you don't already have friends. I'm just saying :). Don't think about dating, is suggestion number 2. Just network. Distract your mind. Doesn't sound to me for some reason that you have any crazy experiences? Suggestion number 3 Experience something awesome. Something you can write down in the books...Just start moving forward. She never even existed really. Have you ever touched her before? Can you tell me she smells like? Can you tell me what color her eyes are? You say you've talked to her before? I tell you it's all in your head.. You have a whole other love experience to have. That! one is the killer. Real love. You are not an adolescent anymore. You have so much to discover.

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  • KeddersPrincess
    11 years ago

    I used to tell people that, but not for the same reasons as you. I used to just get a kick out of dark, morbid jokes, and seeing people's reactions when they found out I was just kidding. Don't sweat it. I think it's fine.

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  • needsadvice
    11 years ago

    Ive never actually said it before, but it be a lie to say didn't actually consider it at one time or another. I agree with some of the earlier posts that said maybe it would help to get closure. Look her up online or on Facebook. Find out what shes doing with her life. Maybe tell her what you've been going through to get it off your chest. Even if you just look at whats shes done and where shes at in life i bet you'll feel much better :)

    (pluz, its easy to get facebook. You could always just get one, look her up and then delete your profile if it bothers you too keep one. Good luck)

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  • lastwolf
    11 years ago

    i did try dating every person i come across really ends up annoying me?

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  • lastwolf
    11 years ago

    its gonna sound self distructutive & stupid but i don't want someone i just want her or no one does that make me selfish :(

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  • lastwolf
    11 years ago

    i don't own a fb -.- I'm really anti social weather die like to admit it or not -.-

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  • Ryuk5127
    11 years ago

    Yes, it's normal. This really happened to me 11 years ago, and I still can't forget her. Dead or alive, we lost our first love, and the pain will linger on.

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  • Captain_Kegstand
    11 years ago

    Normal, and a bit sad. Have you tried dating other girls? After all, you were quite young when you were talking to this one.

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