Is it normal to tell a teacher that i fancy him?
I'm not american so it's not like illegal or anything.
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[Old Memory]
I have a pretty big crush on my teacher but she doesn't speak English very well and she's awkward. Also when I try to flirt with her I feel like she's disinterested and putting up barriers between us because she's my teacher.
But I should know better. Its a bad idea. So its normal that you "fancy" him (as you Brits say) but its not normal to date him or anything. Not while he's still your teacher. Bad idea. *Bad* idea. So don't tell him that you fancy him, that will just make things complicated and put him in an awkward position. He has a moral obligation (and likely some sort of political obligation, to the school, if not the law) to maintain his academic integrity as a teacher. He could get fired.
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kingsleycrowne
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MilleBornes
I don't agree. Is it fair that she's the only one distracted? You can't just get over it. I believe expression is the best way to go. He's not stupid, he knows that he'll attract someone and he's probably attracted to some of the females. The problem lies in the fact that everyone has to hide everything. It would be easier if they both expressed how they feel about one another. If he doesn't feel the same, they can come to some conclusions. She'll be more at ease knowing the unknown.
ASSUMING they both meaning mostly her, are of age, why can't they be together. Rules are rules, but some white people are taught to not date black people It's their family rule, and visa versa, but who has the right to tell you how to feel.
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MilleBornes
There was supposed to be a ? at the end of my last post....Anyway, Even if it was a school girl crush, somewhat touchy subject, but that teacher should be mature enough to handle it responsibly. If no one believes that's possible then you shouldn't send your teenager to school. When I was in high school, I told my teachers3 of them how I felt. Two of those beautiful women talked to me as an adult and explained how it couldn't be. I had respect enough to leave it to my fantasies. I was in the 12th grade when the 3rd who was only24 as a science teacher accepted me. When she was working, I bothered her not. When she was off, we hung out, out of town, used protection, etc, until I graduated and joined the USMC.
The high school thing was pushing it, but if in college, go for it, but respect his/her profession.
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1000yrVampireKing
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[Old Memory]
It would make it awkward.
He would only have to state the boundaries within his job role.
It would only be boring.
Keep it to yourself
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college
I would advise against it. I'm assuming this teacher is quite older than yourself, and chances are you will regret getting into a relationship with him. Where I'm from this is definitely illegal, so that could be shaping my opinion as well. I do, however, believe it is illegal for a good reason. I would just suggest finding someone around your age that you can share new experiences with and can converse with you on the same level, I'm sure you'll be very happy with someone like that.
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MilleBornes
ok???? anyway, you seem like a go getter. Just be sure, SURE you're ready for that ride
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