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I never had any friends and I was so lonely that I started to talk with trees.My bf is a tree,my girlfriend is a tree...Is that normal?
1. Talking to trees/plants have an effect on them. We breath in oxygen and breath out carbon dioxide, and plants breath in carbon dioxide and breath out oxygen. So if you talk to plants, your making them healthier and helping them.
2. You can't communicate or converse with plants and trees normally, we are just too different and can't comprehend each other. But they are as alive as you and me.
If you've ever done mushrooms you'd experience this. On shrooms you can see plants breath, you can see the life in them for what it really is, and you can feel as one with them.
I dunno about talking with them on shrooms, you still won't be able to have a conversation. At least I don't think, I've never tried it.
3. The part about the tree being your Bf/Gf isn't normal. I'm not trying to be mean, it's just that the tree can't return your affections or understand your romance. But it can still be your friend and always be there for you.
I think you should just be friends with your tree pals. They can be the closest friends, but if you're romantically involved with them, you might have the wrong type of connection with them and might just be deluding yourself.
I think you will find that a lot more people than you realize actually talk to themselves, sometimes in their heads or out loud. Typically, they do so when they are alone and in their home / bedroom or somewhere they know they won't be disturbed. I've often done it ever since I was young and I'm almost positive that it is because of my uncanny inability to make friends. It's not even that I can't make friends, it's that I can't keep them. I've been hurt a lot and happen to be a highly sensitive and intuitive person who absorbs other people's moods, feeling, energies and auras like a sponge.
I can't stay around people too long or I will start to feel uneasy and be overcome with a general sense of malaise.
Sometimes, I talk to myself and have full conversations with myself and practice imaginary arguments or discussions that I think might take place with others in the real world and I think it's helped me become a lot more articulate as well as helped me organize my thoughts when forming arguments.
Other times, I just talk to myself or play out certain scenarios in my head (that take place in my fantasy world) or I start to describe a fantasy to myself as I imagine it unravelling.
You're normal. As loath as I am, and many others are, to admit, most of us do this. A lot! It's just one of those things that are socially unacceptable and so people don't talk about it or admit to others as readily. Especially people like you and me who are more... introspective.
Its comforting to talk to plants...I do it so yah i think its normal...Say hi to your boyfreind for me!