Is it normal to talk to your ex and always feel like you're wrong?

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Ok, some guy just did break my heart, but my question isn't really about that.

After talking to my ex (We broke up because he cheated on me.) I always feel like I was the one in the wrong and that I remember things wrong and think I'm genuinely crazy. He always is so "logical." He isn't trying to get me back, but when we talk he manipulates the situation so he doesn't look so bad. Is it normal to feel crazy after a break up? Not crazy like I'm going to key his car, but crazy like he might be telling the truth and if he is then I've been a real btch to him.

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  • misslonglegs
    7 years ago

    We have all been thought it as did mine my ex was fucking my cousin I only found out when he left his phone at my house. He keeps asking me to come back no bloody way he cheated and I don't care how much of a bitch I am towards him

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I used to know someone like that. Dont fall for his crap. He is just as wrong as you think he is while you two aren't talking. He is just used to lying to people to make himself look better.

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  • mtnw
    14 years ago

    some people have the knack to always make everyone else feel wrong. maybe he's one of those. don't let him make you feel that way. he cheated, and you know it.

    do yourself a favor and don't talk to him unless it is necessary (such as if a child is involved).

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  • bazwell
    14 years ago

    While it is possible that some people cheat in relationships because they feel that nothing else they do will serve as a warning to their partner that they need a change, this still remains their choice, and they should take the full responsibility for this and the consequences regardless of the reasons they give for cheating in the first place.

    Your boyfriend should be confessing his sheer and unconditional douchbaggery for cheating first. Only after doing this, could he also discuss some of the factors that he feels led to his cheating behaviors. If after this, you are feeling like you did contribute in some way to the breakdown of the relationship, then yes, you should reflect over this and perhaps pay special attention to this in future relationships!

    best of luck to you!

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