Is it normal to talk to my boyfriends best friend every day?

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So i started to talk to my boyfriends best friend and now i feel like im getting to attached to him. I don't want to start getting feelings for him but yet we always talk real life and i love that about us. What do i do??

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Based on 48 votes (18 yes)
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  • truckerpatrice
    12 years ago

    only solution: Threesome.
    you're welcome.

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  • sleepingbeauty
    12 years ago

    Just put yourself in your bf's situation...how would you like it if he was talking to your best friend all the time? Being friendly is one thing but basically that level of chat is not appropriate when you're in a relationship, so stop it.

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    • babygurl24
      12 years ago

      I wasn't trying to be that girl because i have never cheated on or would cheat on my boyfriend. And i'm not the type that normally falls for people. I just felt a little trapped in the sense that ever since me and him have been dating all my friends just stopped talking to me. So it was nice to have another person to talk to...

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  • Jweezee
    12 years ago

    Don't be that chick

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    • shuggy-chan
      12 years ago

      hahaha^^^ yeah but really thou, dont be that chick that does, then doesnt then does again.

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  • TareBear20
    12 years ago

    I wouldn't know what to do if I was in you're shoes, mainly because I wouldn't put myself in that position. Why did you start talking to his friend, anyways? It is you're own fault if such feelings do arise. I suggest you stop getting involved in him and focus on you're own boyfriend.

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  • LostinU
    12 years ago

    You should stop talking to him, don't make him loose his best friend and don't put your self in a bad situation in front of both. Trust me stuff like that kills a man.

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  • LM89
    12 years ago

    I'm in the same situation but with a mutual friend. It drives me crazy but could never act on it :( its just not fair on your other half. Fantasies are best :)

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    • babygurl24
      12 years ago

      lol but fantasies aren't a great help:/

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  • Sweetz
    12 years ago

    Uh oh. (AT&T commercial song plays in my head- i think that possibly, maybe im fallin' for you) Yea especially since they broke up you should try to keep some distance because he might be vunerable in falling for you. People tend to find love in comfort. Let your boyfriend or his guy friends console him, he should understand.

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    • babygurl24
      12 years ago

      Yeah but a couple things have happened to me and i kinda need his help through it.

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  • Sweetz
    12 years ago

    If that were to happen to me i think i'd get jelous if my partner were to be really close with a friend of mine. Its always best to just keep it as acquaintances. Don't get too friendly... That leads to no good...

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    • babygurl24
      12 years ago

      I love my boyfriend to death. I don't want to lose him i just like talking to his best friend too. He just broke up with his girl and i feel really bad and i want to help but i don't no how.

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  • yotaisgame1
    12 years ago

    sounds like you already like his best friend. Leave the situation entirely or your going to mess up your bfs life.

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  • Mmmmpepsi
    12 years ago

    Choose one or the other dont do that to him.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    If you like your best friend more then your boyfriend then try things out if your boyfriend is an understanding man, he wont bitch about it.

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