Is it normal to talk to another guy while married?

Ok so i've been married for 4years now and have a son, me and my husband dont fight and i still love him, but i feel like our love for each other isnt the same anymore and it has become boring... So is it normal that i feel the need to constantly talk to other guys n have a internet relationship with them..? Keep in mind i have never physically cheated on him, its only talk and flirting and some times dirty talk... Is this considered cheating? Is it normal?

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Based on 55 votes (23 yes)
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Comments ( 12 )
  • YOUSICK

    IF it has become boring, talk to him. next thing you know you will be cheating on him. just talk to your husband.

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  • HSVWHO

    ^ agreed. It is cheating

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  • Cheet0

    LACKING IN COMMUNICATION... I CAN ALMOST GUARENTEE

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  • DiamondGirl

    If you gonna cheat, at least get some bling first! Holla!

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  • Bartholomew

    Some people are under the impression that marriage isn't work. Of course it won't always be the best, the easiest or most fun but sticking in there is what makes it rewarding and shows the love you have for your partner.

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  • rayst

    This is wrong, if you feel like you need something more than what your husband can give you, know that your husband probably feels the same way

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  • howaminotmyself

    I think emotionally cheating on your partner is worse. It is still betrayal. Talk to your husband, not strangers about it.

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  • helenjewett

    ehh.. this doesn't sound right.
    i think you need to spice up your marriage a bit.
    It only gets boring if you let it become routine.
    Go have a date night with your hubs...
    (make sure to get a babysitter for your son.. or drop him at grams&gramps)

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  • Yes ur bored so what rite? Let's both of u b miserable.

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  • wreckd

    Your poor husband. :( Think about his feelings. If you're bored, so what? It won't always be exciting. Go to a marriage counselor.

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  • I say u guys become swingers, I hear that spices up on the down marriages.

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  • moomus

    Cheating is cheating, whether physical or emotional. It's the same shit. How would u like it done to you??

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