Is it normal to talk to a girl during her breakup but not after?

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I'm a guy and a friend of mine started texting and chatting me over the break all the time. At first the conversations were pretty normal but after a while she started getting really personal and we started talking about really intimate stuff. She had just broken up with her boyfriend and after a few weeks she stopped talking to me. When I say she stopped talking to me I mean I've had to initiate the conversations that she would usually start. She stopped talking to me right before school started again and it's pretty awkward at school. I also got the impression that she was interested in me. So I'm wondering: was she going through a rough time and just needed somebody to talk to or could she be waiting for me to flirt with her in real life and transition from just texting and chatting?

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  • Mazlow
    10 years ago

    Nah this is one you'll just wanna let go.
    She just needed to talk,
    You were gentleman enough for it,
    You've done your part.

    Try not to feel used. Just move on and if there was more to it, then she'll contact you. For the moment, she doesn't exist in your world.

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  • RoseIsabella
    10 years ago

    I think she was just needing someone to talk to because of the breakup. I can certainly understand if you might find yourself feeling used. Honestly, I think if you were to get involved with this chick you might end up feeling used because she would clearly be on the rebound.

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  • peterr
    10 years ago

    What have you got to lose by showing an interest? There's no such thing as rejection if you keep an open mind. At the end of the day you may be looking at mind blowing sex or nothing.

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