Is it normal to take revenge on a ex bf after several years.

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2 years ago, I was living with a now ex-boyfriend, who treated me like complete shit, & I still stayed with him for several months, than 1 day he rang me told me he didnt love me, & to pack my bags & leave. I was heartbroken, eventually I moved on & now soon to be happily married, with the person of my dreams, although my soon to be husband used to be friends with my ex, in primary school, they haven't seen eachother in 10 years & somehow my ex-bf found this out & went to my fiance's house to try and coax him out of being with me, this didn't work, (his family where close to my fiances family) and when I found this out, I took revenge and was horrified on how he could do such I thing after treating me so badly, I still want to get revenge on him, & I feel like maybe I'm doing this to prove to him some sort of point or am I deep down inside still heartbroken about what he did to me??

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  • WolfDog
    13 years ago

    Don't do it. Your Ex is looking for you to react towards him so he can try to get back with you.

    I know you might say that you won't get back with him, cause he might just try to get your now fiancé to break up with you.

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  • DannyKanes
    13 years ago

    They say vengeance is a dish best served ice cold

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  • ms_funion
    13 years ago

    the best revenge would be to move on with your life and be happy in your new marriage and forget about him. Go forward and don't look back!

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  • pixie_dust
    12 years ago

    I agree with jetkate.. two wrongs dont make a right. dont stoop to his level. he is miserable, evil human being. misery loves company, which is why he did that. bcuz of his own karma no doubt he feels shitty so he wants to sabotage your happiness. he did not succeed and bcuz of that he's feeling shittier than ever. if you feel pain, why not lovingly cry on your fiances shoulders and let it all out and his affection for you and the act of getting it off your chest will be therapeutic

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  • Dirty-Talk
    13 years ago

    Thanks guys, for all your advice it really helped me alot =]

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