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I'm a 19 y/o man and I've been working out for the last month, I have got a six pack and large biceps and when we go out or are together at home, I take my top off so they can see how buff i've got. My girlfriend tells me to stop, but I like it when they comment.
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Dude... You sound so insecure. Why do you need to hear comments inorder to have satisfaction?
Honestly it is a tad creepy.
I mean I'm a female and if my female friends just whipped their shirt off for no apparent reason I'd be uncomfortable.
Maybe even insecure myself by subconscious comparison.
If you really have the need to be shirtless at least do it in an appropriate location. Like the beach or pool.
Or gym.
Or wherever tools go.
You're just fishing for complements, That's ok. Builds the ego. I love nice chests. They're sexy. But I don't care for the hairy ones. They look revolting. And always have crumbs in them.
The fact that you are a male really took me by surprise. I think it is weird. On one hand, it is like their compliments arouse a side of yourself… and on the other, it is like you are insecure and a exhibitionist. Personally, I don't like it when people, regardless of gender, randomly feel the need to strip in inappropriate places. Heck! I don't even really like it when they do it in the appropriate places. It makes me uncomfortable and it is embarrassing. It's almost of as embarrassing when people start to randomly sing in public and all of the attention is on you. I think that you should take your girlfriend's advice and refrain from doing it at certain places. A word of warning, some people, like guys, might think that you are trying to come on to them which could result in some problems…. If you are gay, that's fine. But, there's a time and a place for everything and some people just aren't going to fly with that.
It might be less problematic if you do it at the gym or while playing sports. You know, lots of guys take their shirts off when they play basketball in the sweltering heat. Though, again, you might weird them out if they realize that you are fishing for compliments. THe beach. You can invite your female friend's parents over for a cook out and if its hot enough you can take off your shirt. You might get a few compliments here or there. It would certainly be better then if you were eating with them in a more formal situation and started to strip.
Why don't get into a weightlifting completion or body flexing?