Is it normal to suddenly be turned on

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Ok I am usually a pretty normal girl but the strangest thing happened to me. I'm watching the Victorias secret fashion show when Katy Perry goes onstage. I have seen her before and thought she was pretty, but not overly so. Well something happened and now she is stuck in my head all the time. Can't stop thinking about her! I made it worse by looking up several videos of her's and now I'm a basket case! Not attracted to my boyfriend sexually any more either. What's going on with me?

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  • dappled
    13 years ago | pl

    You want to kiss a girl and you think you'd like it? Perhaps it could be the taste of her cherry chapstick?

    P.S. It's Psychology.

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  • cleverusername
    13 years ago

    Haha you are bisexual! And have a celeb crush!
    You should have a threesome with your BF
    And you will get over the celeb crush after a while
    I used to be infatuated with Taylor Swift.....

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  • knoshann
    13 years ago

    Hmm that does seem to make sense. Overwhelmed is an understatement for sure because I haven't felt anything remotely close to this before. I have always noticed attractive women but I have never thought about pursuing any of them. As far as guys, I enjoy them but no one has ever made me just crazy like this. I wonder if this is what I have supposed to have been feeling all this time and have just been blocking it out? Possible attraction to just girls I mean.

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  • knoshann
    13 years ago

    Threesome with my boyfriend? Lol if we could get Ms Perry then sure! But really that is part of the issue. I don't seem to be attracted to my guy anymore. It's almost as if there was a switch turned and now I'm experiencing a whole new set of emotions. I even see her in my dreams and that brings on even more questions because I never considered being with another woman.

    Lol dappled :)

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    • theceilingfan
      13 years ago

      My guess is it's one of two things:

      1) You're gay and you didn't realize this until now. Did you enjoy sex with your boyfriend before? If so, I have doubts it's this.

      2) You're so overwhelmed/infatuated with this newfound attraction that it's overtaken your focus completely. I can sort of understand this, as I am attracted to both men and women and have a boyfriend, but I've known that for a long time. I am much more prone to fantasizing about women because I don't have the chance to be with one (at least not often, I'm kind of picky about my sexual partners).

      Maybe you should consider being with another woman? :) This infatuation with a female celebrity may be the first time you're attracted to another female, but it may not be the last. I think only time will tell, because you would have to meet someone with qualities to attract you before you'll know.

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    • [Old Memory]
      13 years ago

      Threesomes with a guy and a girl sound great if you've never done them but about 10 minutes into actually doing it you find yourself asking the guy "um...so why are you here?"

      The guy is a real third wheel. And they are clueless around two women. You want another girl, try it. But just remember that caviar doesn't mix with beans and franks.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    ..Hot.

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  • jessestud
    13 years ago

    that sounds normal, totally have a hard on after reading all that stuff... knoshann try the 3some and let us know how it goes

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  • 343Boy
    13 years ago

    Haha, wow, someone just transformed into a lesbian before my very eyes, this is hilarious.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Nothing wrong with being turned on all the time. And you must still have some control since you haven't attacked anyone...yet.

    Are you overcome with infatuation about kissing another girl or do you want to be in bed with her? There's closeness and there's sex. I know some girls that just want the intimacy and the emotional bonding. Others love just having sex with another woman. I like both.

    Have you figured out at all what your look for?

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    • knoshann
      13 years ago

      Its funny you asked this because i was just going over this in my head. While I could really enjoy being tied up and taken advantage of, I would like it much more if there was some kind of connection. I want her to make me feel special and pretty before she ties me down :)

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      • [Old Memory]
        13 years ago

        I feel seduced and abandoned

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        • knoshann
          13 years ago

          I would never abandon you :) Try and seduce you absolutely

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          • [Old Memory]
            13 years ago

            Be still my heart!

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      • [Old Memory]
        13 years ago

        No sweetie...emotional bonding, not being tied up!

        Oh, never mind!!!

        I would make you feel very special. I would tell you about all the parts of you that are beautiful and then kiss them. I would make you feel things that you have never felt before. I would use my lips, my fingers, my tongue, I can show you magic just by blowing air across certain places. I would give you freedom by holding you in tender bondage.

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        • knoshann
          13 years ago

          That sounds, oh my I can't even say :) Well nothing except PLEASE!

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          • [Old Memory]
            13 years ago

            mmm.
            Your elbows, your shoulders, your eyes.
            I would kiss them all.
            Into the curve of your back and across your shoulders,
            Then down to your toes, your knees, and the outline of your hip
            Feel you strain against your bonds as I breath in your essence.
            Then move to the center of your being and press my face against your inner thighs as I kiss your lips, dive into your soul and bathe you in my liquid fire.

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          • [Old Memory]
            13 years ago

            Sometimes I just want to eat you up!

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  • knoshann
    13 years ago

    Its because i see an attractive girl and i just want to jump her! Every since all this attracted to girl stuff started a couple weeks ago ive been so turned on all the time. Its making me crazy :)

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    • [Old Memory]
      13 years ago

      I meant looking for

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  • knoshann
    13 years ago

    ^^ I'm thinking you right. Looking back , I see now that this isn't really new. It's always been there but I suppose i pushed these desires away. Wonder why i am so out of control now? Anyway ive pretty much accepted that i am at least bi

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    • [Old Memory]
      13 years ago

      Why do you say you're out of control?

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Maybe your bisexual, theres nothing wrong with that

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  • knoshann
    13 years ago

    Carolann that sounds so nice :) I'll have to try that. And again wow!

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  • knoshann
    13 years ago

    Wow that was hot :)

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  • DannyKanes
    13 years ago

    @ dappled win :-)

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  • knoshann
    13 years ago

    Another thing, it's not like I'm a little girl either, I am working on my masters in Psycology. Also, I'm not repressed because low self esteem. I don't intend to sound conceited but I am an attractive lady that is both fit and personable. SO WHAT IS GOING ON WITH ME? Is this possibly normal in any way?

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  • sparrowfeed
    12 years ago

    nah,
    that's too soft.

    I need a guy to start screaming 'cum for me, baby' in my ear. This soft stuff doesn't do it for me.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Omg this convo got me horny... Anyways you guys should seriously get each other's info! call each other up, meet each other? Lol phone sex can be fun

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  • texas1
    13 years ago

    haha you and carolann should meet in person for sure. haha Id be laughing if carolann is actually an old bald lady..haha no offense just saying...

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  • knoshann
    13 years ago

    ^^Lol

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  • Thecarp
    13 years ago

    WTF just happened?!?!

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    This is why I hate this site...too slow.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I'll be here

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  • knoshann
    13 years ago

    Lol! That's pretty good :) I think you are right about not needing him to join in. Its not really an option now though.
    He figured out something was up so I confessed a few details of what I was experiencing and then he broke it off with me. Oh well :(

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    • [Old Memory]
      13 years ago

      Hope he didn't cause you too much pain sweetie. Obviously I don't know all the details, but I think he should have been a bit more understanding. I also think your finding Katy Perry attractive as an avatar and your man problem may be two distinct issues.

      Men are great. I love being with them and I love sex with them. But men drive to that orgasm. It is an absolute mission for them. And that's just fine.

      But two women can enjoy a sexual experience with both more depth and duration than the frantic pounding of a penis (not that there's anything wrong with that!). The smell of your hair, the softness of your skin. Two women can drink each other in. I get hot just talking about it.

      Now there will be a short intermission while I put new batteries in Mr. Happy.

      OK, I'm back...

      Take a break sweetie. Drink some wine. Talk to friends. Relax for a week and see if you can attach some clarity to what you've been thinking and feeling.

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  • knoshann
    13 years ago

    Ummmm

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  • knoshann
    13 years ago

    Yes of course, I am a bit flustered lol :)

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