Is it normal to submit to my husband everyday and fake it?

My husband has some turn ons that keep me very busy. Everyday I text him dirty notes or pics and of course everynight we meet his basic needs, occassionaly I'll give him the turn ons too. I only get my pleasure once a month on average. I don't work, I stay home with the kids (one out of the house 2 still at home). is it normal to meet his needs everyday? Or is he just lucky! It's not for my pleasure, but it keeps him home. He would prefer his turn ons allot more regular. I feel he's lucky, he feels his getting the minimal. You can see where I feel ' i give and he doesn't appreciate' this can make my giving harder to do. IIN?