Is it normal to subconsciously flirt?

I never realised this until my friends pointed it out. But I flirt with every girl I can, for no reason. So my question is does anyone else do this?

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  • dappled

    Not me. I don't know how to flirt. *sobs*

    *secretly looks around for a cute girl to comfort him*

    I'm not above making injured puppy noises if I have to!

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    • TerryVie

      can you do injured kitten noises too?
      Tiger kittens count.

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      • Frosties

        *make the kitten noise and winds himself around your legs* ;)

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    • bananaface

      Ha!

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      • dappled

        Weeee! It only took 26 minutes for one to arrive. That's a new personal best! :D

        *makes the puppy sound anyway*

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        • bananaface

          Aww shucks:P

          And you're such a liar, you are a flirt;P. You're also evil for using puppies against me! Awwww!

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  • KeddersPrincess

    People used to mistake me for flirting when I was just being friendly.

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    • Anime7

      That's actually a pretty common misinterpretation.

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    • Ldizzy1234

      Thats what I feel like it is. I mean, it seems like whenever I'm just trying to be friendly to a guy, they think I'm flirting. And then they get angry when I tell them that I'm not interested, and call me a tease.

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    • zorpoxtheconqueror

      Yh thats what I would say too

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  • Ldizzy1234

    I'm a girl and apparently I do it all the time too. Like you, I never realized. But a lot of people started taking it the wrong way and I get called a tease a lot now. It kinda sucks, but it happens. You could try to control it, but its probably gonna be very hard to do.

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  • Boo!

    Unfortunately, I dont know how to flirt. :p No, I don't think it's normal. When you talk to the opposite sex it might be a good idea to be aware of what you say and try to decrease it. It might give the wrong impression to some people.

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  • RapidlyRotatingPanda

    I find any house party situation, alcohol, or even spicy food (for some reason) makes me just flirt the night away...
    Unless there are family members around of course. Then I remain sober and well mannered!

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  • bananaface

    I know people who do this. I'd say it's normal:).

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    • shuggy-chan

      oh really who?

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  • BurnaBaby27

    I used to be like that, flirting with every guy I meet. I've toned it down greatly since I've seen potential in my relationship, but that's really just how I am. I flirt with girls too. All unintentionally because I have no desire to be with anyone else.

    I'd say you're normal.

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  • BlueJeansWhiteShirt

    Yeah. I pretty much flirt with every guy I meet. I don't intend to or purposely do it. It just happens. It's the way I am. And the majority of the time it's just harmless fun.

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  • NotFloydzie

    Are you a big flirt? Or perhaps were? Sometimes when you do something continuously whether it's an expression or saying a certain word, you start doing it without realizing it because of how much you did it in the past.

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    • Thewomanizer

      u again

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    • Allistalla

      Thats excactly what I do.

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  • elowen

    Kind of makes you an asshole...

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    • Francophile22

      Why?

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  • Ozzy

    I did this, i found out im either subconsciously flirting with girls or im just socially awkward

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  • RockerRoseanne

    Im the same, i apparently flirt with loads of guys, but i dont notice im doing it.

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  • VioletTrees

    Maybe it's not "subconsciously flirting" so much as it's "not understanding how to interact with the opposite sex normally". I don't mean that as an insult, mind, and I don't think it's unusual. It can be a problem, though, because sometimes women don't want to be flirted with, and it can make people uncomfortable. I realise you don't mean to do it. I used to flirt back at guys without realising it, because I didn't know they were hitting on me.

    Anyway, I don't think this is abnormal, but you might want to try to be more aware of it.

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