Is it normal to study martial arts & not feel at peace,

My name is u dnt need to know tht its a strange anyway lol but my friends call me alpha and my enimies korbra kai or Usain bolt( Im not Fast and nor do have I ever bullied Ralph Macchio and swept his leg lol.) My problem is I am confident or to others cocky even if tht is true tht gives no one the right to try fight me to test them selves...like c'mon im not even tht good but im study enough and frequently to defend my self,my family and principles. I am a High School Senior who is challenged day in and day out i cold clock one knuckle head after another and they keep appearing out the Im starting to feel that confidence is a stimulant for violence i feel other students are jealous of my happiness and love for humor. They think I think I better( I feel we are equal). So for the love of stupidtity they must try assert tht they are dominant by any means... Im not a Punk or an easy win. I don't get to spar alot due to being busy but who needs it when u r frequently being attack by idiots i like to think of it as a street kumite. All I want is to gain knowledge,live life,get girls,work out be left the hell alone. Students don't really try to fight me with fist any more but now they use words and silver tounges its easy for me to say i don't care but i do. I need peace I want to be the best. School will begin in a week. Humility,Humility. What would u do? How do combat words that can not be punched or kick?Is it possible to change the way ppl view u with out immediate conflict? Educate me