Is it normal to stop wanting sex?

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Iv been with the same guy for a little over two years now and I'm afraid he's not attracted to me in a sexual way anymore. Over this time Iv gained a little weight, not a lot only like 5lbs but still for some reason he doesn't want to fool around as much as I do. I'm concerned that this is only going to get worse the longer we stay together. Should I be worried? Or does anyone have any ideas on how to spice things up to get his attention?

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  • lc1988
    11 years ago

    This might come as a shock but surprisingly, there's more to life than sex.

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  • quentari
    11 years ago

    It might be his sex drive lowering naturally, or maybe he's too tired. Try suggesting a new position or getting some toys. Maybe role-play?

    Anyway it's probably not your weight, and if he's the type of guy to be less attracted to you at that extent for just a little bit of weight then he's a terrible boyfriend.

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  • Mrstr8up
    11 years ago

    After only 2yrs ....RED FLAG.

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  • DandyElfman
    11 years ago

    Mine has been leaving for awhile now. Though I was never that interested in relationships. I just did not see much of a point in it.

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  • ygrowup
    11 years ago

    I am sure it's not the weight, but you have to be creative to keep sex exciting and new! If you don't have any ideas then you can get some from porn or the Internet! Different places, different ways, leads to excitement!

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