Is it normal to still want my ex?

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When my old boyfriend (of over a year) dumped me, I got a new boyfriend quickly. Me and my ex fought a lot...then he got a new girlfriend and we started avoiding each other. The other day he told me he broke up with her because he didn't like her near as much as he liked me and now we talk... I still love my new boyfriend, but I really miss my ex and I realize how much I still love talking to him. Is that normal?

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94% Normal
Based on 18 votes (17 yes)
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  • mrbobmarley4
    12 years ago

    Don't talk to your ex. It'll just make your new boyfriend mad.. You should just stop talking to him and just continue your relationship with your new boyfriend!

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  • lillypoppy
    12 years ago

    don't do it! if you do at least break up with your current bf ..you could end up being the biggest BIOTCH just because you missed your ex who dumped you in the first place

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  • violetgrape
    12 years ago

    your ex doesn't know what he wants don't risk it

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  • lovehurts13
    12 years ago

    Its okay to feel that way it happens to all of us why because it could be that we see them happy with someone or u just really miss the relationship u just have to be careful. What actions you take at the moment can haunt u later. Sometimes its meant to move forward he broke up with you and I don't think he deserves u back. As bad as it hurts and miss think of the time he wasn't talking to u because he got a girlfriend so now that he's not with her out of a sudden he wants u back.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Like you said you IMMEDIATLY got a new bf after he broke up with you. So you were trying to find someone to take away to love & pain from your old bf too soon. You rushed into a new relation ship too quickly in my eyes. But the best way to get through this is fund out which one you'd miss more if you lost him, & chose that one (:

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  • ashelizax
    12 years ago

    bad idea. the past is the past for a reason. if you and your current boyfriend don't work out, and your ex is still available, then maybe consider giving him another chance.. but only then. why hurt your current boyfriend whom you love?

    sounds to me like your ex is jealous that you're with someone else and he's alone. hence why he stopped talking to you when he got a new girlfriend, and is now talking to you again since they broke up. he doesn't want to be with you, he just doesn't want you to be with anyone else.

    if you love the one you're with, then don't ruin that for anything. love is a rare, beautiful and powerful thing. i can't fathom why anyone would throw that away..

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  • ygrowup
    12 years ago

    Normal yes, but be careful with your actions or you run the risk of loosing both of them!

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  • Danika915
    12 years ago

    It is normal but it's very complicated cuz on e you brake up with your current boyfriend your going to Want your old boyfriend back but your old boyfriend might not take you back

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