Is it normal to still think of your ex, due to the uncertainty....

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My ex and broke things off after I had attempted to end it and failed, but then 1 month later she broke up with me, and it hit me hard. I thought it'd be simple to get over, but we had sex a couple times after the break up, and it made our attempt of a friendship weird. The closure was not good enough that I cant help to think what ifs, or why did I's. keep in mind that in order to keep myself from a toxic relationship that would eat me away each day, I purposely acted as not myself in front of her, to get rid of any feeling she had towards me as a partner. I regret that disillusion now since it has prevented us from remaining friends Which is honestly all I want! is it normal to apologize, and try to start anew?

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  • shuggy-chan
    9 years ago

    I have no advice for getting her friendship back, because friendship is a 2way street and nothing u can do will change her mind. She has to change it on her own.

    But what i can do is frame this in a better light for you. This in the long run is a good thing for you as a person. Cause many people only grow and learn by fucking up and making mistakes. And your probably mush wiser and insightful on dynamic of relationships because of it.

    So try to make the best of it and start moving on from it, the annoyance/pain will fade with time.

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