Is it normal to still think about the person who took your virginity

I am now 19 years old and i lost my virginity when i was 13. I still frequently think about this person even though the feelings have seemed to subside

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  • What'sMyName?

    Wait. You were how old?

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  • cheartsc

    Totally normal, I still sometimes think about the bastard who took my virginity.

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  • TriggerHappyPanda

    We're talking about a person who took something from oh that only one person ever can. Of course it's normal

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  • meetdfocker123

    1st one got to be remembered :)

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  • supaflyafro

    im still a virgin because im afraid to lose it to the wrong girl. also not waiting till marriage becuz i plan on getting married well in my 30s or 40s

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    • Ryan556

      Guy I agree with

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  • BallerinaCass

    Wow, we're exactly the same. I lost my virginity at 13, I'm now 19 and I still think about him. Completely normal!

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  • We were not meant to be promiscuous. When you have sex with multiple partners, you are ripping your mind to pieces. you will always think about him because he is "imprinted" on you.

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  • Yes, it's totally normal. I think about my first too. You're not the only one.

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  • LF4sDLX

    I wanna do my first again to see how it would be different Better I hope

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  • BoredGuy

    13? lol!!

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  • ghostmau5

    Unfortunately, yes, it is normal.

    Even though I don't still have feelings for him (he cheated on me with my cousin), I still think about him sometimes. In a way, I regret letting him be my first, but if he hadn't broken my heart in such a terrible way, my fiance (soon to be husband in July) wouldn't have fixed my broken heart.

    But I still wish I could kick that jerk's ass. No lie.

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  • Andyailin

    This is normal but guys what do you think of a girl who lost her virginity at 18 she is 21 and she thinks about all the guys she been with as if they all were her first??

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  • Todd'mo

    You are made to be with the first one for life... so yup... it's really normal.

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  • keyzali

    I saw my first yesterday and couldn't help but think about what life would have been with him......then I saw his girlfriend -_-

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  • josh69tx

    ahh the one that got away

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  • icanhascheezburger

    Yea I think it's normal you're attached to that person subconsciously and always will be because they were the first.

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  • zelskid

    No. But I mentally review every woman I've ever done. Only about30. I can still picture everything about them, though sometimes I forget their names. Lessee: the crazy 40 year old with the pixie face, tiny tits, very white body, bad temper, black pussy hair, fairly frigid...........

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  • Ryan556

    Even tho she dumped me I don't think about here shure I took hers to she dumped me I just don't give a fuck I was 12 she was 15 what I find funny is she dosent want me to be with anyone no matter how much I like them I'm 18 now but she's a 21 lol

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  • kickit_complex

    The boy who took my v card cheated on me the next day and continiously with the same girl for a whole year, I was 17, I always had the gut feeling....

    I dont think about it much because now im 22 and they are both still together, they are very happy oxy contin addicts...need i say more?

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  • MrsBailey9

    I still think about my first, who ways highschool sweetheart and first love. He cheated on me for an entire year, with my friend, before I found out. We broke off our engagement. He ended up marrying her because she was pregnant. They are still married... I married the most amazing man in the world. Up until I met my husband I had thought I would be single forever, and that "he" would be the only one to ever love me. He and I recently reconnected after 17 years, on Facebook. We are friends again, but I won't be friends with her ever again. So yeah, I think about him still. My husband is so much better! So so much... :)

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    I'm still friends with my first so I'd say that's normal.

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  • brighteyedgirl

    I still feel the same way about my first. He was not only my first, but was my first love. I then found out that he had cheated. -.- I was an emotional wreck for awhile, but eventually the pain goes away, eventually every thought of him will go away.

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  • Mr-Time

    Sadly my first was my first love. Why is that sad you ask, because she ended it by cheating on me multiple times. So i had to delete her from my memory so no i don't think about her at all.

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    • eeveefluff

      ya kinda thought about her just then tho...so you obviously haven't completely wiped her out...
      >.>

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  • 8Serene8

    Nope.

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  • Jamesina

    Yea you are not alone in this for me it's years past and I still think about her :)

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