Is it normal to still think about somebody i haven't seen for 4 years

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Some years ago I liked the girl at my work as a friend and from here side to we worked together we spend time sending phone messages to each others till late evening we went to cinema concerts theatres making tea each others at work I new she he'd a boyfriend because she told me she new I had wife ( I had a feeling she didn't think I have) I told here but we still where doing thing like before expect sleeping together. And one day suddenly everything turned against . With help from others from work she started to avoid me I was trying to find out why she will not tell me she was getting angry why i was asking here I was getting angry why she does not tell me I was trying to find the truth because was hurting me I just could not understand why after 6 month this happen . She just was not any more with me I decided to change work place and suddenly she wanted same thing to do and we went together to look for. Was no harmony anymore I left work I went away I heard she marry here boyfriend they have child . I came back she wanted to see me we arranged the date and day before I decided not to meet her. To make it short I still think about her. I don't know why. Is it normal?

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  • humage
    12 years ago

    my story is worse. I fell in love with this girl 6 years ago. I never dared ask her name; i just remember her face because she keeps coming in my dreams occasionally.
    I guess it is normal, but I wish i meet that girl just once more to know if she's really my soulmate or not..

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  • tori
    12 years ago

    I still think about my first love. That was.......a long time ago. Wondering what he is doing. Does he think about me now and then?

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